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she is not pushing me or anything and I usually like it. It is the fact that she had those things if she didn't then I wouldn't have any problems but she had and it reminds me thos disgusting people. She is not forcing me she doesn't even know I have this concern.
This is entrapment. Against the law. My ass would’ve definitely freaked out and went no touchy touchy either. Definitely reevaluate the whole relationship.
I think the difference refers to whether it’s medically necessary. Like if there’s a tumor or illness that requires tubes/ovaries/uterus to be removed vs me just wanting to never get pregnant.
Her body, her choice, but yeah, I feel like I'd be very uncomfortable if my woman decided to get naked in front of our male friend and especially so knowing the dude has pictures of it.
If she wanted to surprise me with some sexy photos that's another thing, but specifically it being a male friend is weird here, for me anyways.
I don't suspect cheating or anything, it's just uncomfortable.
Yes it does feel like just grinding through life. I feel a lot of guilt because I know he loves me deeply and would be depressed and probably go back to drinking if I left him, but I feel like he needs to find his own way at this point. I've tried directing him into goals and interests but he isn't interested in any of it. I need to focus on my own growth and let him find his own way. But I don't even know where to start, and once again, I feel guilty giving up.
And yes it feels exactly like he's “trying to get me off his back” with his responses. It's like we're roommates now, or just Best friends, but no longer lovers. Is it unfair of me to give up on him when he says he's trying to improve on our relationship?
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Send the pics of the texts and block her. Go be happy.
There's always a reason why people suddenly confess these things something tells me the worse news is yet to come.
she is not pushing me or anything and I usually like it. It is the fact that she had those things if she didn't then I wouldn't have any problems but she had and it reminds me thos disgusting people. She is not forcing me she doesn't even know I have this concern.
This is entrapment. Against the law. My ass would’ve definitely freaked out and went no touchy touchy either. Definitely reevaluate the whole relationship.
Sure. That's always a possibility. Are you trying to convince me of something and if so, what and why?
I'd prefer clothes on her while in public, sure
I think the difference refers to whether it’s medically necessary. Like if there’s a tumor or illness that requires tubes/ovaries/uterus to be removed vs me just wanting to never get pregnant.
Her body, her choice, but yeah, I feel like I'd be very uncomfortable if my woman decided to get naked in front of our male friend and especially so knowing the dude has pictures of it.
If she wanted to surprise me with some sexy photos that's another thing, but specifically it being a male friend is weird here, for me anyways.
I don't suspect cheating or anything, it's just uncomfortable.
Not really, but you should do it
Yes logic would tell me that. I think she’s in a bad place mentally as well. Maybe not.
Yes it does feel like just grinding through life. I feel a lot of guilt because I know he loves me deeply and would be depressed and probably go back to drinking if I left him, but I feel like he needs to find his own way at this point. I've tried directing him into goals and interests but he isn't interested in any of it. I need to focus on my own growth and let him find his own way. But I don't even know where to start, and once again, I feel guilty giving up.
And yes it feels exactly like he's “trying to get me off his back” with his responses. It's like we're roommates now, or just Best friends, but no longer lovers. Is it unfair of me to give up on him when he says he's trying to improve on our relationship?
He used rape culture and tried to play on fears he hopes you have to tamp down your confidence in accomplishing your personal goals.