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Date: October 11, 2022
He's always been that way, things never just start out of the blue, you just missed some red flags or he kept them well hidden. Ppl do that unfortunately, even for years.
I'm not bashing you. Your feelings don't matter. Not to her. She already told you that.
You seem to think this is personal. It's not. I've been through this. Ultimately you need to realize that this isn't about you. It was never about you. This is about her.
She discarded you. Don't try to get answers out of someone who treats you so coldly. You're not going to get them. You're wasting your time, energy and emotions.
Leave her alone. Leave this alone.
Hard pill to swallow? Yep. It always is when someone you think loves you suddenly gets rid of you. But being mad and trying to get answers when they gave you very clear ones through their actions doesn't help anything.
I was where you are for 3 years. I don't want you to waste that much time on someone who clearly never cared about you in the first place.
I donnt understand your issue with him watching girls alone tbh
I have a friend who does either this or watches lesbian porn because he can't stand seeing a dick in videos, it turns him off. I find it weird, like in a sad way cause he is missing on so much amazing content ahah, but really it's all about preferences
For example, i am a girl and i love watching men masturbating or amateur porn. (Not live! though). There is something way more real with it, because masturbation porn is not cut and filmed for hours, it feels less fake. That and, there is something more intimate in watching someone pleasuring themselves. Like you are peeking into their intimacy. It just satisfies another aspect of lust, not just dumb sexual lust.
My point is, when we're young, we think porn is stupidly “watch and jerk off” and no nuance. But there are so many categories because it depends on what you are feeling like at that very moment. What excites you and what you lust for. Sometimes, you wanna see someone getting smashed, sometimes some people being intimate and making love.
I think you are uncomfortable because it makes you feel jealous and insecure. That's what needs to be addressed imo
What I got is how when you reread your post he is so self fish. Yeah lady – your the self fish one. Poor guy needs some loving as he isn’t getting it from you.
I always say that I’m not at fault for being born with OCD/anxiety. I’m not at fault for being born into a family of functional alcoholics. But I am responsible for how I deal with my behaviors. I have been medicated for 19 years now (since the age of 18) and attend therapy when needed. I became a functional alcoholic and was not being the best husband and father, so I got therapy to sober up.
People with mental illness are dealt a shitty hand. It sucks. I can give some passes for slowness to accept help, especially if the person is uninsured. But this is not the case in your situation. He is fully capable of getting help and medication but refuses to do so. He knows he has a gravy train and you aren’t giving any ultimatums.
When my wife caught me drinking after promising to quit for the thousandth time, I never changed because I would promise to quit, she would do nothing other than express her disappointment, and I could keep on drinking. Until one time she finally caught me again, went upstairs and packed her bags. She woke up our daughter and said she was leaving. In that moment, I knew I was a piece of shit who took advantage of her being “too nice” to leave. It was the last day I ever took a drink. The next day I woke up, called off work, and called an alcohol counseling service and had an appointment booked for a couple days later. The counseling was amazing and did a deep dive into why I drank (OCD/anxiety) and gave me many coping mechanisms to help stay away from booze.
Whether it’s addiction or mental illness, people who desperately need help will not get it if they can get away with doing nothing. You need to up and leave. You need to demand he attend therapy and get medicated. Do not give in and do not accept anymore hollow apologies. If he refuses, then HE has made the choice to leave the relationship and lose his kids. If he begins getting help then stops or breaks any rules, you leave for good and file for divorce. No more playing nice.
Yeah FIL is being ridiculous