Hello guys, ♥/ride hard/ control lush or domi / yo very haapy , go get ’em! #ebony #teen #feet #oil #cum #sexy #brunette #lovense [191 tokens remaining]
One thing I would reassure yourself is you are a good person who is deserving of the love you give. In his eyes he didn’t see you as that person but that’s the fault of him, not you. Losing any relationship is tough, so I’m sorry you are going through this! Take time for yourself and focus on yourself. Spend more time with people who lift you up and care for you. Most importantly, don’t settle for anything less than you deserve!
Plan B thing about the visa because she wanted to soften the breakup
Thats how i saw it. I even insisted on canceling the process if she has no intention of marrying me but she wants me to think about this dumb plan. Annoyed and Embarrassed with myself.
Look into AA for your addiction. My EX (for obvious reasons) had this same issue. He worshipped the ground I walked on… but he needed help. I suggest you get help. No matter how much we love the man, we always end up loving ourselves more.
You really need to break up and work on how you are BEFORE you get into another relationship. You waiting years to break up with someone and not only wasting your time but ALSO wasting her time is a huge problem, and that's going to continue to follow you in every relationship until you fix it.
I had a similar issue in which I was in my first relationship with someone that's extremely clingy, whereas I NEED alone time frequently. I gave up that free time to make him happy, and I wanted to break up with him for a year for that and other reasons, but I didn't because I felt bad and I didn't know how to break up with him without hurting him (and he was suicidal, so i was scared of what he'd do, but still). So I stayed until HE broke up with me after I had become so resentful. You may think it's helping her by not breaking up with her, but actually, it's extremely selfish of you to be waiting 2 years to break up.
After all that, I did and still do feel like a piece of shit because I wasted his time when he could've found someone that actually wanted to be with him and fully love him. It was selfish of me.
However, I've promised myself that I would never do that again, and now I end things when I don't want to be with someone instead of selfishly staying in the relationship well past the expiration date because I don't want to hurt them. You NEED, need, need to work on this issue before getting into another relationship. I'm very serious
Sounds like a compulsive liar, which might be forgiven if she got help. However, she deliberately tried to make you feel awful and jealous. You might be able to forgive lies that don’t hurt anyone but she created lies to hurt you.
She may also be immature and much younger than what she actually say she is, because she’s acting like a very insecure, immature, and VERY YOUNG teen.
I don’t blame him for wanting to do it, but I do blame him for not understanding how it would affect an already failing relationship.
One thing I would reassure yourself is you are a good person who is deserving of the love you give. In his eyes he didn’t see you as that person but that’s the fault of him, not you. Losing any relationship is tough, so I’m sorry you are going through this! Take time for yourself and focus on yourself. Spend more time with people who lift you up and care for you. Most importantly, don’t settle for anything less than you deserve!
Plan B thing about the visa because she wanted to soften the breakup
Thats how i saw it. I even insisted on canceling the process if she has no intention of marrying me but she wants me to think about this dumb plan. Annoyed and Embarrassed with myself.
“I work a physically demanding job” he said it right there.
He was not interested in sex that day. He was tired.
Dont blame op for his wife being insecure and manipulative.
Look into AA for your addiction. My EX (for obvious reasons) had this same issue. He worshipped the ground I walked on… but he needed help. I suggest you get help. No matter how much we love the man, we always end up loving ourselves more.
You really need to break up and work on how you are BEFORE you get into another relationship. You waiting years to break up with someone and not only wasting your time but ALSO wasting her time is a huge problem, and that's going to continue to follow you in every relationship until you fix it.
I had a similar issue in which I was in my first relationship with someone that's extremely clingy, whereas I NEED alone time frequently. I gave up that free time to make him happy, and I wanted to break up with him for a year for that and other reasons, but I didn't because I felt bad and I didn't know how to break up with him without hurting him (and he was suicidal, so i was scared of what he'd do, but still). So I stayed until HE broke up with me after I had become so resentful. You may think it's helping her by not breaking up with her, but actually, it's extremely selfish of you to be waiting 2 years to break up.
After all that, I did and still do feel like a piece of shit because I wasted his time when he could've found someone that actually wanted to be with him and fully love him. It was selfish of me.
However, I've promised myself that I would never do that again, and now I end things when I don't want to be with someone instead of selfishly staying in the relationship well past the expiration date because I don't want to hurt them. You NEED, need, need to work on this issue before getting into another relationship. I'm very serious
Sounds like a compulsive liar, which might be forgiven if she got help. However, she deliberately tried to make you feel awful and jealous. You might be able to forgive lies that don’t hurt anyone but she created lies to hurt you.
She may also be immature and much younger than what she actually say she is, because she’s acting like a very insecure, immature, and VERY YOUNG teen.
Walk away.
The kissing and emotional & physical affair you started was cheating.
The rape was not because it wasn’t consensual.
to be honest I also feel like she has to know…how can she not.but also…yeah:/
Ask her