There’s literally zero reason to put your personal business out into the world like that. Move on. You can tell people that it’s relevant to, but it’s an immature move to post it on your social media.
I have no problem w my wife going out w her friends etc. never have. however the difference in your situation is her immediate defensive attitude, the new guy & the texts and shutting down over it all. When all you said is you’re uncomfortable w this.
Has she ever acted like this before? Is this behavior normal character for her or is this suddenly new?
There has to be something different w her because of your gut feeling. You’re concerned for a reason.
How about tell her you need to talk to her and she doesn’t have to say anything just listen but you want her to know how you feel. Tell her that her being defensive, shutting down and refusing to talk to you is hurtful and you don’t understand why she can’t talk about it w you. Just tell her you feel she’s dismissing your feelings and if she doesn’t want to talk at least she knows exactly how you feel. Tell her how you’re having trouble concentrating at work and you just want to know what she’s acting this way.
It’d be naked for me to continue day to day knowing my actions or inactions were hurting my wife. It just seems she doesn’t care how you feel about this work thing and has dismissed you. It just doesn’t make sense.
She’s never given you a reason to doubt her until now in my opinion. Her evasiveness & attitude to something that doesn’t require it is deafening loud to me.
That, sir, is an awesome suggestion. It so happens I have a present coming for her for Mother's Day that would work excellent in combination with a romantic poem. Thank you!!
Is this a good friend they've known for awhile?
I am asking myself why I haven't said this before…here in black and white, it seems so obvious!
There’s literally zero reason to put your personal business out into the world like that. Move on. You can tell people that it’s relevant to, but it’s an immature move to post it on your social media.
If you can't be honest for fear of him “blowing up at you”… You might need to rethink things.
You explain it that you're not going to send more nudes because you don't like doing that… And then he respects you… Or he blows up.
If he blows up. How do you think that's going to be for you in the long term?
I have no problem w my wife going out w her friends etc. never have. however the difference in your situation is her immediate defensive attitude, the new guy & the texts and shutting down over it all. When all you said is you’re uncomfortable w this.
Has she ever acted like this before? Is this behavior normal character for her or is this suddenly new?
There has to be something different w her because of your gut feeling. You’re concerned for a reason.
How about tell her you need to talk to her and she doesn’t have to say anything just listen but you want her to know how you feel. Tell her that her being defensive, shutting down and refusing to talk to you is hurtful and you don’t understand why she can’t talk about it w you. Just tell her you feel she’s dismissing your feelings and if she doesn’t want to talk at least she knows exactly how you feel. Tell her how you’re having trouble concentrating at work and you just want to know what she’s acting this way.
It’d be naked for me to continue day to day knowing my actions or inactions were hurting my wife. It just seems she doesn’t care how you feel about this work thing and has dismissed you. It just doesn’t make sense.
She’s never given you a reason to doubt her until now in my opinion. Her evasiveness & attitude to something that doesn’t require it is deafening loud to me.
That, sir, is an awesome suggestion. It so happens I have a present coming for her for Mother's Day that would work excellent in combination with a romantic poem. Thank you!!
I mean… maybe it’s legit… but this is exactly how it starts.
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