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Let me preface this by saying I’m a serial monogamist so taking your side in this isn’t about open relationships in general.
You got into the relationship based on the premise it’s open. While there’s nothing wrong with him changing his mind, there’s also nothing wrong with wanting out when one partner wants to change the rules. You want an open relationship, so be with a partner who wants that as well.
I’d also be weary about the fact that he wants to close the relationship because he’s jealous you’re getting more action than him. That sounds like he hasn’t even actually changed his mind, he’s just resentful you’re more successful than him.
As for him being the best bf you’ve ever had: You got together when you were 18. Forget about that. There will be plenty of better partners for you down the road.
Why do you need an agreement? It doesn’t matter what this friend thinks, you’re an adult and are capable of making your own decisions.
If he’s constantly starting a fight over this, the only agreement you need is this: „I’m grown up, I make my own decisions and if you don’t stop trying to be controlling my next decision will be to cut you out of my life.“
Hi OP. Gonna DM this message also. I just want to make sure you’d see this. If you check my profile of a dude I was friends with and was asking advice about, 2 years ago… he would do stuff like this. A LOT. Super dishonest and a way of controlling the relationship. Whether it’s with you or any other relationship in his life ig.
I can’t speak about your guy because I don’t know him, but the person I know would use it to disarm me.
It’s like a form of magic hahaha. He keeps your attention where he wants it and also ‘mentions’ it but NEVER takes accountability for his own action. And he mentions it so that you can feel bad about bringing it up and expressing very normal and real concerns about how you’re not comfortable with it. “But I already told you/we’ve had this discussion. They don’t mean anything to me” OR “If they were serious (etc etc) then why would I tell you about it? Wouldn’t I try to hide it?”
Those sorts of things. I think the biggest thing is the accountability thing. Taking actual accountability means listening to your concerns, explaining his reasoning/thinking fully (not ito disclosing but ito why he doesn’t make it clear to these people that he’s in a relationship), genuinely working to understand your feelings and what makes you feel that way, and then working WITH YOU on action plans moving forward ito how he can ensure you don’t feel that way.
Also look out for him playing the victim card, saying “yeah I know I’m the bad guy” or some shit like that.
I found it helpful to actually write down things that were said so I could process them separately from the interaction to understand what is truly being said.
Ehh, don’t know if this is helpful but I tried to just relay my experience. Also since that incident I’ve ‘discovered’ that I am at the very least bi, if not gay. For context. So my relationship with that friend had that underlying subtext that even I wasn’t aware of at the time.
If she just wanted a baby, she didn't need a relationship and marriage lol.
But you don’t want to go either? You don’t like clubs. Couples don’t need to do everything together. And it’s not going to be fun for her if you’re there miserable the whole time. Why should she want you to go and be miserable? So she should pretend that it would be more fun if you’re around so you can decline and feel better or something?