It’s ok that you don’t love her and don’t want to be close to her. It may be beneficial to your kids to have a grandmother-figure in their lives, and if they grow to love her, I hope you’ll allow that given that their biological grandmother is not present.
If you don’t love her, you don’t have to say it back! If her using the term “Grandma” makes you uncomfortable (because they do have a biological grandmother who is not in the picture), maybe you can explore other nicknames. For example “Nana,” “Grammy,” etc.
Your abuser does not care about love languages. He sees you as a prop with boobs. Men in their 30s don’t date 21 year olds for kind reasons. You are not special, you are not “so mature for your age,” you were simply targeted by a predator.
I just want that one text so I can go to bed knowing he's okay.
You need to stop worrying so much and do something usefull instead of looking at your phone whenever he goes out.
Seek a life or get therapy.
It’s ok that you don’t love her and don’t want to be close to her. It may be beneficial to your kids to have a grandmother-figure in their lives, and if they grow to love her, I hope you’ll allow that given that their biological grandmother is not present.
If you don’t love her, you don’t have to say it back! If her using the term “Grandma” makes you uncomfortable (because they do have a biological grandmother who is not in the picture), maybe you can explore other nicknames. For example “Nana,” “Grammy,” etc.
So, you just fake your way through it or do you lay there and play sex doll? Do you enjoy it at all? No judgment, just curious.
You’re both idiots for physically fighting each other over a microphone. Break up before one of you does something even worse.
Who said I was unhappy ? I said I want sex. I never said I was unhappy. You sound miserable. Goodbye.
Your abuser does not care about love languages. He sees you as a prop with boobs. Men in their 30s don’t date 21 year olds for kind reasons. You are not special, you are not “so mature for your age,” you were simply targeted by a predator.
Find a new boyfriend.