She was licking some some girl while other dude was dicking her down in both hole, and she was not thinking about you or was thinking about how naive and ignorant you are. you are here thinking how to save “relationship” while she's out there riding on some dick
Also you couldnt hide it forever anyways as she would find out later on, either from a third party or sociao media if you guys post baby pictures.
But question: are you guys using rhe banquet to announce the pregnancy or announce it more publicly? Like does more people than just you two/maybe some really close family/friends know?
Because I cant understand how she wouldnt have heard about jt if you guys were public about it.
If you work with her/share mutual friends and no one has been told (hence why she may not have heard thru the grapevine yet) then be prepared for tension after the banquet eith her because the pregnancy would be the talk of the banquet. Which will really stress her out but that also doesnt mean your wife shouldnt attend.
Tell your ex but even a warning may not prepare her for her hearing about how her ex was able to have a baby eith someone else/people not knowing about your fertility struggles who knew you two were together asking her “why didnt you two have kids together”.
If your wife is just starting to show or it could be passed off on maybe some winter weight gain, then go eith that rather than monopolize a banquet for your SHARED business. If your wife is directly asked/inquired about it then she doesnt have to hide it but dont actively try to bring attention to it.
Spitting on someone is common assault in the UK. Plus a very degrading thing for anyone to do. Why would you want to be with someone like this, I hope you can leave the relationship sooner rather than later in order to keep your dignity and not waste any more time with this person.
I appreciate that people understand the OP and her friends contributed to this. Hopefully he can snap out of this and avoid getting any worse, and hopefully the OP grows up and takes more accountability for her actions.
Buy house where you are. Renovate the other one and rent it out till your ready to move there?
Let put it this way
She was licking some some girl while other dude was dicking her down in both hole, and she was not thinking about you or was thinking about how naive and ignorant you are. you are here thinking how to save “relationship” while she's out there riding on some dick
Good enough explanation for you?
She's controlling
Bro break up with her!!! Why are you still with her?? You can do better
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You know damn well the only reason they’re even getting any attention is because their rich and famous.
So make money and stop whining.
No.
Also you couldnt hide it forever anyways as she would find out later on, either from a third party or sociao media if you guys post baby pictures.
But question: are you guys using rhe banquet to announce the pregnancy or announce it more publicly? Like does more people than just you two/maybe some really close family/friends know?
Because I cant understand how she wouldnt have heard about jt if you guys were public about it.
If you work with her/share mutual friends and no one has been told (hence why she may not have heard thru the grapevine yet) then be prepared for tension after the banquet eith her because the pregnancy would be the talk of the banquet. Which will really stress her out but that also doesnt mean your wife shouldnt attend.
Tell your ex but even a warning may not prepare her for her hearing about how her ex was able to have a baby eith someone else/people not knowing about your fertility struggles who knew you two were together asking her “why didnt you two have kids together”.
If your wife is just starting to show or it could be passed off on maybe some winter weight gain, then go eith that rather than monopolize a banquet for your SHARED business. If your wife is directly asked/inquired about it then she doesnt have to hide it but dont actively try to bring attention to it.
She’s the one who made the rules to begin with.
Spitting on someone is common assault in the UK. Plus a very degrading thing for anyone to do. Why would you want to be with someone like this, I hope you can leave the relationship sooner rather than later in order to keep your dignity and not waste any more time with this person.
Just ask her if you can look at it. Her reaction to that alone would be very telling.
I appreciate that people understand the OP and her friends contributed to this. Hopefully he can snap out of this and avoid getting any worse, and hopefully the OP grows up and takes more accountability for her actions.