This thread is so funny. Having read this, it’s pretty obvious that said person picked the cat up and tossed it on the floor, which is perfectly reasonable.
Yet everyone here is acting like he threw the cat full force at a wall… I’m sorry do you really think dropping a cat two feet from a leaning over position to the floor is animal abuse?
Info: are you aware how babies are made? You seem shocked that busting a nut inside your ex has resulted in her becoming pregnant. It ain't storks that are going to deliver your bundle of joy. You need to put your big boy pants on and plan on co-parenting with your ex. Sort out your finances and get child- support organised.
Seriously, if you made a negative remark about her vulva size, shape and scent, she would be devastated. We, as women, engage in this abuse of men. It's absolutely ignorant, and a nasty double standard.
I don’t think I can ever possibly bring myself to end it, she’s very emotional and a very lonely person, timid and has minimal friends, she sees me as her only support system and always tells me that I’m the only reason she’s still sane and not a complete mess.
Another perspective on this, though, is that her relationship with you is holding her back. She needs to get out and make friends. She needs to learn not to yell and scream. And so on. You're her crutch.
This is simple: do you want a child right now? If the answer is “no”, or “I'm not sure”, or “I have xyz doubt”, then do not have one. Whether you abort or give it up for adoption is a different matter, but if this is something that you are not 100% sure about and committed to, don't do it. Yes, your bf's feelings on the matter should play into your feelings, but ultimately it's your choice. You can always wait and have a child when you are both “ready”. You cant unbirth a child that you aren't looking forward to having.
Don’t threaten with divorce. Do it.
This thread is so funny. Having read this, it’s pretty obvious that said person picked the cat up and tossed it on the floor, which is perfectly reasonable.
Yet everyone here is acting like he threw the cat full force at a wall… I’m sorry do you really think dropping a cat two feet from a leaning over position to the floor is animal abuse?
Yep, so avoidant that instead of admitting that she says she is aromantic.
Info: are you aware how babies are made? You seem shocked that busting a nut inside your ex has resulted in her becoming pregnant. It ain't storks that are going to deliver your bundle of joy. You need to put your big boy pants on and plan on co-parenting with your ex. Sort out your finances and get child- support organised.
Seriously, if you made a negative remark about her vulva size, shape and scent, she would be devastated. We, as women, engage in this abuse of men. It's absolutely ignorant, and a nasty double standard.
I don’t think I can ever possibly bring myself to end it, she’s very emotional and a very lonely person, timid and has minimal friends, she sees me as her only support system and always tells me that I’m the only reason she’s still sane and not a complete mess.
Another perspective on this, though, is that her relationship with you is holding her back. She needs to get out and make friends. She needs to learn not to yell and scream. And so on. You're her crutch.
Don’t do it
This is simple: do you want a child right now? If the answer is “no”, or “I'm not sure”, or “I have xyz doubt”, then do not have one. Whether you abort or give it up for adoption is a different matter, but if this is something that you are not 100% sure about and committed to, don't do it. Yes, your bf's feelings on the matter should play into your feelings, but ultimately it's your choice. You can always wait and have a child when you are both “ready”. You cant unbirth a child that you aren't looking forward to having.