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So while you’re the one having to carry the brunt of the birth and push an actual human being out of your vagina, he wants to prioritize HIS comfort as if his life is the one potentially at stake? Threatening to abandon you while you go through one of the toughest things in your life? Does his delusional ass think he’s the one pushing out the baby?
Don’t procreate with selfish fools. Consider yourself blessed that you found out before a positive pregnancy test.
Well she’s definitely old enough to be able to pick up after herself. Maybe suggest some therapy as you guys didn’t have a great childhood, maybe there’s some underlying issues. My next step would be to make her a daily/weekly tick list of what she needs to be doing in order to be contributing fairly. 26 is far too old for your sister to be acting like your mother. You and your partner are trying to do right by her so she needs to hold up her end of the deal and not take advantage of your kindness. You seem like a wonderful big sister
He isn’t respecting your feelings at all, and then blaming you for your reaction to it. What YOU are experiencing is called reactive abuse. It’s a terrible tactic where someone pushes and pushes and pushes until you snap, then they make you out to be the crazy abusive one.
Not every abusive relationship is physically violent. You are in an emotionally abusive relationship.
Talk with your sister first before you decide. If you go NC with your mother, then all the toxic behavior from your mom will fall on your sister. That is something you want to tell her about first. Both of you have a serious problem with your mother. If you can, both of you ought to deal with it together.
Therapy would help you understand better how to deal with your mother and the toxic behavior she has. Especially what that has done to you. You should also talk with a psychologist for your mental health.
As for the choice between low contact and no contact, you have to make that decision based on how you feel about leaving your mom alone. She is responsible for her own actions and behavior. You do have a right to protect yourself. Find the best solution for yourself after talking with your sister and a therapist.
So while you’re the one having to carry the brunt of the birth and push an actual human being out of your vagina, he wants to prioritize HIS comfort as if his life is the one potentially at stake? Threatening to abandon you while you go through one of the toughest things in your life? Does his delusional ass think he’s the one pushing out the baby?
Don’t procreate with selfish fools. Consider yourself blessed that you found out before a positive pregnancy test.
I also thought cheating, he’s lined up his next girlfriend and was planning to leave. How he went forward with all this IVF shit ….
Well she’s definitely old enough to be able to pick up after herself. Maybe suggest some therapy as you guys didn’t have a great childhood, maybe there’s some underlying issues. My next step would be to make her a daily/weekly tick list of what she needs to be doing in order to be contributing fairly. 26 is far too old for your sister to be acting like your mother. You and your partner are trying to do right by her so she needs to hold up her end of the deal and not take advantage of your kindness. You seem like a wonderful big sister
He isn’t respecting your feelings at all, and then blaming you for your reaction to it. What YOU are experiencing is called reactive abuse. It’s a terrible tactic where someone pushes and pushes and pushes until you snap, then they make you out to be the crazy abusive one.
Not every abusive relationship is physically violent. You are in an emotionally abusive relationship.
I’m not really sure what PTSD has to do with not helping out around the house.
The thing about having a mental health condition is it definitely can make things harder, but it doesn’t absolve anyone from cleaning.
He could get to know himself a little better and find some coping skills and strategy – but he would have to take interest in doing so.
Why?
Talk with your sister first before you decide. If you go NC with your mother, then all the toxic behavior from your mom will fall on your sister. That is something you want to tell her about first. Both of you have a serious problem with your mother. If you can, both of you ought to deal with it together.
Therapy would help you understand better how to deal with your mother and the toxic behavior she has. Especially what that has done to you. You should also talk with a psychologist for your mental health.
As for the choice between low contact and no contact, you have to make that decision based on how you feel about leaving your mom alone. She is responsible for her own actions and behavior. You do have a right to protect yourself. Find the best solution for yourself after talking with your sister and a therapist.
Honestly I think everyone should get a prenup, keeps both sides secure incase of worst case scenarios.
Probably?