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my abusive ex used to say i cheated on him because i hung out with a group of male friends (that he was also friends with) without him, like 2 weeks before we started dating… turns out he was accusing me of this our whole year and a half relationship, bringing it up randomly in arguments, etc… because he was cheating and was trying to justify what he was doing by saying i cheated he did this with most of my friends even my straight female best friends
You’re right, it was the same case for him and her, it was his parents taking custody of him so now they’re trying to catch up. Overall overreacted I’ll spend some time with my parents ?
But she laughs it off? Surely then she is ok with it? If she wasn’t ok with it she would come home to her boyfriend and tell him about it.. instead she laughs about it.. not buying that, op talk to her not to Reddit that’s when u will only get the true answer
I will tell you plainly as someone a few years younger than him, well-adjusted men that age do not date barely-legal teenagers. Period. It doesn't matter if he was specifically seeking you out, a man with healthy mental and emotional development would have politely declined to see you once he found out that you were just out of high school. It is hot for you to understand that now because you don't have the two decades of adult life experience he has, but please understand that this is not normal however you slice it.
His mom is probably wrestling with disappointment in her son's choices and anxiety about whatever you did involving his child. She can't control his decisions, but she is clearly not happy about them, and for good reason. If a friend of mine was dating a teenager I would stop hanging out with them, but this is her child so that's not really an option.
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I actually spoke to my counselor about it, and she was very much on the side of – look, counselling is very hot and sometimes people have bad days. At the very least she should have made the session free or offered another free session. I agree with my counselor, it's a balanced approach and she doesn't deserve to be punished for a mistake like that – her punishment is losing a client, which she did. My boyfriend just didn't want to do anything more about it – I wanted him to send an email explaining how it effected him, I think he did (but he was very fair, mentioned how he hoped she was okay rather than his own embarrassment at it) I think that's probably the best solution. I'm disappointed she didn't offer a free session, as I think he could have moved beyond it if she did.
People express affection in different ways. It's an easy guess to say your boyfriend is with you because he likes how you show affection. If you're worried he wants more gifts then you could ask him that… but this is more a problem your friend is having. Her heart may be in the right place, but she's coming across as controlling. Kindly, and firmly, tell her that your relationship is good as is and you don't need advice.
my abusive ex used to say i cheated on him because i hung out with a group of male friends (that he was also friends with) without him, like 2 weeks before we started dating… turns out he was accusing me of this our whole year and a half relationship, bringing it up randomly in arguments, etc… because he was cheating and was trying to justify what he was doing by saying i cheated he did this with most of my friends even my straight female best friends
You’re right, it was the same case for him and her, it was his parents taking custody of him so now they’re trying to catch up. Overall overreacted I’ll spend some time with my parents ?
But she laughs it off? Surely then she is ok with it? If she wasn’t ok with it she would come home to her boyfriend and tell him about it.. instead she laughs about it.. not buying that, op talk to her not to Reddit that’s when u will only get the true answer
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I will tell you plainly as someone a few years younger than him, well-adjusted men that age do not date barely-legal teenagers. Period. It doesn't matter if he was specifically seeking you out, a man with healthy mental and emotional development would have politely declined to see you once he found out that you were just out of high school. It is hot for you to understand that now because you don't have the two decades of adult life experience he has, but please understand that this is not normal however you slice it.
His mom is probably wrestling with disappointment in her son's choices and anxiety about whatever you did involving his child. She can't control his decisions, but she is clearly not happy about them, and for good reason. If a friend of mine was dating a teenager I would stop hanging out with them, but this is her child so that's not really an option.
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Your relationship is not great
Yep.
I actually spoke to my counselor about it, and she was very much on the side of – look, counselling is very hot and sometimes people have bad days. At the very least she should have made the session free or offered another free session. I agree with my counselor, it's a balanced approach and she doesn't deserve to be punished for a mistake like that – her punishment is losing a client, which she did. My boyfriend just didn't want to do anything more about it – I wanted him to send an email explaining how it effected him, I think he did (but he was very fair, mentioned how he hoped she was okay rather than his own embarrassment at it) I think that's probably the best solution. I'm disappointed she didn't offer a free session, as I think he could have moved beyond it if she did.
Thanks, have a nice day and thanks for commenting
Again, physical warning signs of abuse are not even close to what you’re describing in your post.
People express affection in different ways. It's an easy guess to say your boyfriend is with you because he likes how you show affection. If you're worried he wants more gifts then you could ask him that… but this is more a problem your friend is having. Her heart may be in the right place, but she's coming across as controlling. Kindly, and firmly, tell her that your relationship is good as is and you don't need advice.
Brutal but true.
Absolutely nope rhe he'll out of there. Sexual abuse and criminal record will only make future abuse more likely.
50iq take
6th grade girls in the 90s. Only someone with a full Lisa Frank collection would have the gall.
Downvoted for speaking sense. Never change Reddit.
sounds like it was a lie and he just a player. he is only sorry he got caught.