In this case it might be easiest to dump her. Just straight up show up at her house with all her stuff. Say you're done with her, and if she asks why just say “I know about xyz”.
If you like, you could tell her you've lost interest and found someone new, but you don't want to pursue the new person until you've broken up because it would be wrong to pursue someone while you're with another. I mention this because it would be fun watching her try to win you back just due to her ego not allowing her to be the one that gets broken up with.
I'm petty I know. But my wife told me lots of insider info on painful things you can do to people that hurt you. Pro tip, when you see her a few months later get her name wrong, close, but wrong. She will remember that for a life time hahaha
She shouldn't have berated you in public, no. At the same time, trolling is so freaking boring and stupid, and *knowing your audience* isn't censoring yourself, it's being a smart speaker.
I would walk. Its clear you didn't fully heal and you can't tell if you want her for her or if you want her because you're hurting and don't want to be in pain any more. Until you can sort that out I would cut as much contact as possible and tell her the truth about it. If she is going to be with you and be true, she'll wait. If she doesn't she answered it for you.
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In this case it might be easiest to dump her. Just straight up show up at her house with all her stuff. Say you're done with her, and if she asks why just say “I know about xyz”.
If you like, you could tell her you've lost interest and found someone new, but you don't want to pursue the new person until you've broken up because it would be wrong to pursue someone while you're with another. I mention this because it would be fun watching her try to win you back just due to her ego not allowing her to be the one that gets broken up with.
I'm petty I know. But my wife told me lots of insider info on painful things you can do to people that hurt you. Pro tip, when you see her a few months later get her name wrong, close, but wrong. She will remember that for a life time hahaha
She shouldn't have berated you in public, no. At the same time, trolling is so freaking boring and stupid, and *knowing your audience* isn't censoring yourself, it's being a smart speaker.
I would walk. Its clear you didn't fully heal and you can't tell if you want her for her or if you want her because you're hurting and don't want to be in pain any more. Until you can sort that out I would cut as much contact as possible and tell her the truth about it. If she is going to be with you and be true, she'll wait. If she doesn't she answered it for you.
[–]Randobon
-3 points 5 hours ago
Hide her, gotta find an ugly wingwoman when you go dating.
Very feminist, much solid advice.
If this is the situation then your girlfriend needs to grow tf up
Thank you!