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Thanks for sharing your journey! Mine is similar. I sometimes still find myself asking questions that “feel out” the situation, first. But my husband does what you suggested, and breaks down the situation out loud so 1) i can hear that the question isn’t direct and 2) so he can get feedback and directly address my needs in that moment.
There's gonna be an update about how she went through his phone and found out they were together. Then in 6 months we will see this on BORU and go, “Oh I remember that one, knew it all long!”
You and your partner are both deserving of love and respect in a partnership. There are no villains, and if you decide to keep trying, then I respect that, and truly appreciate the kindness, compassion, and forgiveness you harbor within your soul.
However, you must know it’s not wrong to leave. A partnership is a steady building of trust until both parties can communicate so openly and freely that their sense of self extends beyond and binds with another (or others, if poly)… and colloquially, he’s taken three major strikes at any trust that’s been built.
Ask yourself what was, what’s left, and what can be built from here.
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Can I ask why you want that option?
Thanks for sharing your journey! Mine is similar. I sometimes still find myself asking questions that “feel out” the situation, first. But my husband does what you suggested, and breaks down the situation out loud so 1) i can hear that the question isn’t direct and 2) so he can get feedback and directly address my needs in that moment.
U caught feelings for buddy smh.
There's gonna be an update about how she went through his phone and found out they were together. Then in 6 months we will see this on BORU and go, “Oh I remember that one, knew it all long!”
Tell him you'll be spending that same night at an ex-boyfriend's place.
1) What a divorced adult man does of his life/sexual life is none of your business.
2) If he goes to see landscapes or an 18yo prostitute crotch is entirely up to him and you are not entitled an opinion regarding that.
3) You wont even travel with him, this trully doesnt affect you at all.
You and your partner are both deserving of love and respect in a partnership. There are no villains, and if you decide to keep trying, then I respect that, and truly appreciate the kindness, compassion, and forgiveness you harbor within your soul.
However, you must know it’s not wrong to leave. A partnership is a steady building of trust until both parties can communicate so openly and freely that their sense of self extends beyond and binds with another (or others, if poly)… and colloquially, he’s taken three major strikes at any trust that’s been built.
Ask yourself what was, what’s left, and what can be built from here.
Colloquially, he’s already struck out.