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Okay love, often victims stay longer because they are kind and cannot fathom how a person can act so horribly.
Once you were isolated and he felt you were in his control with the move, he took off his Charisma Mask and showed you who he really is. Narcissists like to appear to be perfect, and control the ones close and abuse them.
It is a classic symptom of abuse for victims to think that maybe if they are nice enough, kind enough, patient enough, understanding enough, etc, they can SOMEHOW fix the abuser. No. The abuser is the problem. You are not the problem. You cannot fix an abuser. You cannot change Anyone, period. Its literally impossible (trust me!!! I tried in my abusive relationship!)
Okay, the good news:
You aren’t married to him, so you don’t need to deal with the hassle of divorce or even kids here. You are young, can forsure find a guy who is actually kind and will treat you right. So.
Talk to a trusted family or friend about the situation, and book a flight to stay with them. Do NOT confront your partner, do not tell him. That would be extremely dangerous. So when he isn’t at home, pack your things, get all your important documents: IDs, cards, passport, birth certificate, etc, and leave.
Once you are safe on your flight, begin to block him on every social media platform, and go private on everything. Block his number. There honestly is nothing you can say that will get through to the narcissist, because the narcissist is only interested in what serves them. They will also try manipulating you to stay and guilting you, etc.
Please love, you got this. Call your safe place, find a motel if you have to if there are no other options. My abusive relationship was also about a year and it took me a very long time to detox from him. Please look into therapy once things have settled down. Talk to family and friends to make sure they block him and do not give out your info. Have a ring camera installed in case. Please update if you can.
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I was engaged to marry the wrong girl once. My ex of 3 years and I were completely no contact. She looked me up one day and I broke up with my fiancé that night. I’ve been happily married for 25 years. He should know by now is my point. I had no doubts but I did with the fiancé I broke up with.
Thank you ?
We have full context here and it sounds like he's already doing it.
STOP MORALIZING OUT OF CONTEXT.
This is no simple thing and no one said it is easy.
But some distance may put things in perspective. For good or bad.
No and i mean NO responsible parent would ever let you meet their kid 2 weeks after they started seeing u.
That's fucking nuts! That's literally insane he's trying to speedrun you into a relationship with him and a mommy role.
Help him buy stuff for his kid and get u to meet him under false pretenses so u can play house?
Look no. If my husband cheated on me. And i started seeing someone new. I would never expose my child to someone I'm not officially with, don't know even a month, don't know to any full extent, don't know if they are even safe to be around…no offense.. it's crazy.
Him being a good dad means putting his daughter first… this isn't him being a good dad. It means he probably exposes that poor little girl to every chick he goes on a date with as a possible mommy replacement.
Dude is a walking red flag.