That's inappropriate and the fact your husband acted that way is ridiculous. The comment of an indirect kiss says it all. Drunk or not, it was flirting.
Holy shit man, this scenario is straight out of a Shannon Rice Lewis cartoon. Imagine playing spare prick in your own home and thinking about whether you should end the relationship? You'll be babysitting in no time whilst they go out to discuss baby's future.
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So to be clear, y’all were never close fiends and he’s reached back out?
To me, this sounds more like a way to get back into your life. It’s odd to me that he’s set on being “friends” after such a short situationship. The “omg we’ve both matured!” seems like a way to convince you further
I see you are getting downvoted but FWIW this made me laugh. I'm going to be optimistic and assume that was your intention and not to just hurt my feelings 🙂
It would be one thing if this had been going on for like six months or so, and yes, I would agree you shouldn’t throw people to the curb at the first sign of issue. But his isn’t a first sign, is it? This is YEARS. That IS emotional abuse.
Updateme!
That's inappropriate and the fact your husband acted that way is ridiculous. The comment of an indirect kiss says it all. Drunk or not, it was flirting.
Holy shit man, this scenario is straight out of a Shannon Rice Lewis cartoon. Imagine playing spare prick in your own home and thinking about whether you should end the relationship? You'll be babysitting in no time whilst they go out to discuss baby's future.
But was it a normal relationship? I guess I'm trying to ask if i was crazy enough to not identify that he was toxic
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yeah I won’t
So to be clear, y’all were never close fiends and he’s reached back out?
To me, this sounds more like a way to get back into your life. It’s odd to me that he’s set on being “friends” after such a short situationship. The “omg we’ve both matured!” seems like a way to convince you further
I’d trust your gut.
Retroactive jealousy is not exclusive to virgins nor do all virgins have that.
I see you are getting downvoted but FWIW this made me laugh. I'm going to be optimistic and assume that was your intention and not to just hurt my feelings 🙂
It would be one thing if this had been going on for like six months or so, and yes, I would agree you shouldn’t throw people to the curb at the first sign of issue. But his isn’t a first sign, is it? This is YEARS. That IS emotional abuse.
You need a new bf, tbh. His issues are his to worm through, not yours to tiptoe around.
Tell your husband NOW!
100% – this person needs to be out of both your lives