I don’t think that you are ethically obligated to tell them anything unless and until you are married or getting there. At this point you don’t have to say anything.
To absolve yourself of your guilt though at some point you could just say what happened, don’t say the amount, and say that you don’t want to talk about it.
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We're dating for two years (we on-line separately). I am currently extremely busy with work & life, and so is he. We work very different schedules, so sometimes we go days without seeing each other. Today, he insisted on dinner, I was exhausted (worked a 24 hr shift) and didn't really want to go out, but I eventually gave in. I asked if he can drive because I haven't slept in 24 hrs, but he didn't want to drive, so I went to pick him up. I got to his house 8 minutes late and the above happened. I am not sure what his issue is with me.
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I don’t think that you are ethically obligated to tell them anything unless and until you are married or getting there. At this point you don’t have to say anything.
To absolve yourself of your guilt though at some point you could just say what happened, don’t say the amount, and say that you don’t want to talk about it.
If it’s over just let it go. Cut contact and move on. We can’t read minds so it’s a waste of time trying to over analyze this.
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We're dating for two years (we on-line separately). I am currently extremely busy with work & life, and so is he. We work very different schedules, so sometimes we go days without seeing each other. Today, he insisted on dinner, I was exhausted (worked a 24 hr shift) and didn't really want to go out, but I eventually gave in. I asked if he can drive because I haven't slept in 24 hrs, but he didn't want to drive, so I went to pick him up. I got to his house 8 minutes late and the above happened. I am not sure what his issue is with me.
put him in the bin where he should be!
see if you can stay with a friend if not ask work if you can leave now explain everything. don’t give him chance to talk you round!
No this is dumb. She's not ok with his behavior and playing games isn't going to magically make it ok if he's ok with the games.