It’s not you, I’m sure it’s difficult for him and then the pressure adds to that and makes it worse.
The good news is the more comfortable both of you get the better it should be, compliment him and let him know you are having fun. Might help him feel more confident and keep it going.
Sliding right in isn’t great either, lol…you want some feeling there.
Dunno I did not want to remember it 😀 but maybe because I'm ace and not a fan of genitalias. Orrrr maybe I'm ace because I saw too many genitalias growing up. Ah those grandmas and grandpas changing before the pool, my poor eyes…
People give the most unrealistic advice about reporting things to the police. They don’t keep track of every report like some long list of bad guys they’re always looking out for. Like the cops have a personal file on everyone.
I menu plan and do my grocery shop once a week. You could do the same on your extended stays and just say that you’re planning to cook c, y, z—anyone interested before you head to the store?
When I’m planning the menu for the week, I’m taking into consideration who will be home, what activities we have planned, who likes what….and I try to cook such that we have leftovers here or there so I’m only cooking 4 days a week. Dinner is the only meal I eat so not cooking isn’t an option but there are some nights when I’m only cooking for me. I just have it planned out.
IMO the two of you are fundamentally incompatible. You require affection and attention regularly and he withholds those things when he doesn’t get his way. That’s harmful to you and his inability to communicate his feelings/needs/expectations BEFORE withholding affection is a giant red flag.
If I were in your position, I would start planning an exit strategy. Find a job, place to live, roommates, etc.
It’s not you, I’m sure it’s difficult for him and then the pressure adds to that and makes it worse.
The good news is the more comfortable both of you get the better it should be, compliment him and let him know you are having fun. Might help him feel more confident and keep it going.
Sliding right in isn’t great either, lol…you want some feeling there.
Dunno I did not want to remember it 😀 but maybe because I'm ace and not a fan of genitalias. Orrrr maybe I'm ace because I saw too many genitalias growing up. Ah those grandmas and grandpas changing before the pool, my poor eyes…
People give the most unrealistic advice about reporting things to the police. They don’t keep track of every report like some long list of bad guys they’re always looking out for. Like the cops have a personal file on everyone.
I menu plan and do my grocery shop once a week. You could do the same on your extended stays and just say that you’re planning to cook c, y, z—anyone interested before you head to the store?
When I’m planning the menu for the week, I’m taking into consideration who will be home, what activities we have planned, who likes what….and I try to cook such that we have leftovers here or there so I’m only cooking 4 days a week. Dinner is the only meal I eat so not cooking isn’t an option but there are some nights when I’m only cooking for me. I just have it planned out.
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IMO the two of you are fundamentally incompatible. You require affection and attention regularly and he withholds those things when he doesn’t get his way. That’s harmful to you and his inability to communicate his feelings/needs/expectations BEFORE withholding affection is a giant red flag.
If I were in your position, I would start planning an exit strategy. Find a job, place to live, roommates, etc.
I understand you'd really like to have him there, but it seems your boyfriend is at a place where he emotionally can't handle being there right now.
Losing a family member is naked, everyone handles grief differently. I think you just really need to try understanding his position.
He has been there for you as much as he can. I'm terribly sorry that you're going through this, but you both have needs that are important.
Ask her when she's getting a boob job and she won't find it funny at all. It sounds like you need a new girlfriend. This one is a bully.