So he thinks your perfectly normal response of calling the police in that situation is a betrayal and psychotic, but can’t see that if he actually shot a blank into the ceiling to get a reaction out of you it would be abusive and psychotic?
He’s a fuck buddy so of course he’s going to push limits and explore his fantasy. That is the sole purpose of your whole relationship. If you don’t like it find a new one. You’re not in a committed relationship so you both can move on to other preferences and see other people too.
We both are in individual therapy. It’s just my luck that my therapist has been away for the holidays and just returned. I haven’t seen her yet. I will keep the couples therapy in mind. Thank you
I hate that too, and I hate that they judge if you don’t respond quickly like you have nothing else to do but respond to texts. You could try a boundary and say look. I love you but unless there’s an emergency the truth of the matter is I’ll text when I get a chance but I don’t like texting all day. I leave my phone down for hours at a time.
Girl what no you are not wrong here at all. HE assaulted YOU. He put you in fear of your life. You defended yourself. He put his hands around your throat without consent, you had no way of knowing if this stranger was about to murder you or not.
The bottom line is you don’t have to stay and you don’t owe him anything. He lied and broke your trust your well within your right to say what’s been broken can’t be fixed or will be to naked to fix and you don’t want to stay.
Does she play with toys? Do you foreplay and clit stimulate while having sex? Most weapon cannot finish without clitoral stimulation. I’m assuming she doesn’t self please so she might not even know what gets her off. I would talk with her and see if she’s open to exploring that either her alone or together. The more she knows what makes her tick the more you can learn and both be satisfied. If she says she’s fine with you and enjoys it then take it for what it is, she’s likely not lying to you
It actually says “he left me at 12 weeks”. ?
I think your understanding of this situation is sadly 100% correct :/
So he thinks your perfectly normal response of calling the police in that situation is a betrayal and psychotic, but can’t see that if he actually shot a blank into the ceiling to get a reaction out of you it would be abusive and psychotic?
Yeah, this guy ain’t stable.
He’s a fuck buddy so of course he’s going to push limits and explore his fantasy. That is the sole purpose of your whole relationship. If you don’t like it find a new one. You’re not in a committed relationship so you both can move on to other preferences and see other people too.
We both are in individual therapy. It’s just my luck that my therapist has been away for the holidays and just returned. I haven’t seen her yet. I will keep the couples therapy in mind. Thank you
You deserve better than him. Everyone does
Depends on the circumstances, again we don't know them as it's a one sided story and how adult you are and the state of your relationship
What language is he fluent in and why don’t you learn that?
This isn't a real relationship. Just move on.
I hate that too, and I hate that they judge if you don’t respond quickly like you have nothing else to do but respond to texts. You could try a boundary and say look. I love you but unless there’s an emergency the truth of the matter is I’ll text when I get a chance but I don’t like texting all day. I leave my phone down for hours at a time.
So some people don’t like that I do that
Girl what no you are not wrong here at all. HE assaulted YOU. He put you in fear of your life. You defended yourself. He put his hands around your throat without consent, you had no way of knowing if this stranger was about to murder you or not.
This isn’t normal. At all.
The bottom line is you don’t have to stay and you don’t owe him anything. He lied and broke your trust your well within your right to say what’s been broken can’t be fixed or will be to naked to fix and you don’t want to stay.
I don’t know how to get out … I have her key. I want a clean break. Do I just return her key when I visit and say I’m done then block?
Does she play with toys? Do you foreplay and clit stimulate while having sex? Most weapon cannot finish without clitoral stimulation. I’m assuming she doesn’t self please so she might not even know what gets her off. I would talk with her and see if she’s open to exploring that either her alone or together. The more she knows what makes her tick the more you can learn and both be satisfied. If she says she’s fine with you and enjoys it then take it for what it is, she’s likely not lying to you