Your question dances around what you really want — you want to break up with him.
He's unattractive, you want to be alone, he'd be a terrible husband.. living with him sucks.
Well, if it sucks now it's going to suck in the future too.
So break up with him and give him to the weekend to get out before you have the landlord ban him from the property.
You don't need to make it a huge argument where you detail all of the ways you feel that he is a crummy boyfriend. You just need to tell him that the relationship doesn't work for you, that you are unhappy and that you want to be alone. If he wants to get into an argument or begging session don't let him. Keep strong and do not move the move-out date beyond this weekend. He'll have a million reasons why he can't – but I assure you he can find a friend, family member or long-stay hotel or campground if he really has to.
You’re so young. Move without him. Give it 2 years. You’ll soon know what is important, what is being affected by what and where you want to go in life. Also at the end of those two years you’ll have experience in the job that allows flexibility on what you can then do. As in you can progress somewhere else geographically, or move into a similar role that’s fully remote.
You’re too young to pass up an opportunity because you have to share a living space with your partner, and he refuses to leave his friends. You have lots of time later on to really prioritise family, for now if career is important then go for it. London is an exciting place to online. If it’s meant to be with your partner then it’ll work.
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Never let her babysit again just hire a professional babysitter next time
You don't want him to move out.
Your question dances around what you really want — you want to break up with him.
He's unattractive, you want to be alone, he'd be a terrible husband.. living with him sucks.
Well, if it sucks now it's going to suck in the future too.
So break up with him and give him to the weekend to get out before you have the landlord ban him from the property.
You don't need to make it a huge argument where you detail all of the ways you feel that he is a crummy boyfriend. You just need to tell him that the relationship doesn't work for you, that you are unhappy and that you want to be alone. If he wants to get into an argument or begging session don't let him. Keep strong and do not move the move-out date beyond this weekend. He'll have a million reasons why he can't – but I assure you he can find a friend, family member or long-stay hotel or campground if he really has to.
End it. Life with him won't get better!
You’re so young. Move without him. Give it 2 years. You’ll soon know what is important, what is being affected by what and where you want to go in life. Also at the end of those two years you’ll have experience in the job that allows flexibility on what you can then do. As in you can progress somewhere else geographically, or move into a similar role that’s fully remote.
You’re too young to pass up an opportunity because you have to share a living space with your partner, and he refuses to leave his friends. You have lots of time later on to really prioritise family, for now if career is important then go for it. London is an exciting place to online. If it’s meant to be with your partner then it’ll work.
Good. Then she'll have a lesson to learn