Let's start by addressing your middle paragraph. I wouldn't say there's no dilemma. You're simply making very little sense. At first, I would have just told you to start asking questions and get to know her (if you haven't).
The problem arises when you say you talked about yourself and she showed interest, but then tell us later that she knows nothing about your interests. Help us understand that, because it's contradictory.
He’s coming off as a hypocrite then. Maybe he’s been too afraid to tell them his true feelings, or he’s been lying about who he is because he’s simply too lazy to get you something.
Me and my friends don’t celebrate birthdays or Christmas with each other anymore. It’s expensive to give everyone gifts when we have bills to pay, so we stopped gift giving a long time ago.
Our exception is our other halves and children get gifts.
So it seems strange that he chooses to continue to gift give friends but not you. That from the other comment, that he was extremely happy with his gift.
Yeah, he’s lying about not being a gift giver or receiver, he just doesn’t want to gift you.
Nope. I don't see a real future with this fellow. Don't you wonder about what/who he's picturing in head while you have sex… can he see your facial expressions when having sex? You are horrified .
7 years is a drop in the bucket move on You deserve to be in a happy loving relationship
Start reevaluating your relationship with her. Seriously her proposal was underwhelming. Becuase it didn't have fireworks or dramatic lighting and photos.
Ask her what she wants if she wants a marriage or does she just want a wedding. Becuase it seems she just wants to be the center of drama and to hell with you. You seem to have just a supporting role.
My husband love this man proposed to me in a McDonald's.
So he has energy to stare at naked women on social media and jack off to porn regularly. Yet has no energy sexually for you. He isn't prioritizing you…he is prioritizing lust for other women.
Get off of Reddit and talk to a lawyer. You portraying your life like some Lifetime movie on the internet isn’t helping you.
Let's start by addressing your middle paragraph. I wouldn't say there's no dilemma. You're simply making very little sense. At first, I would have just told you to start asking questions and get to know her (if you haven't).
The problem arises when you say you talked about yourself and she showed interest, but then tell us later that she knows nothing about your interests. Help us understand that, because it's contradictory.
I'm happy to continue, but we need more context.
He’s coming off as a hypocrite then. Maybe he’s been too afraid to tell them his true feelings, or he’s been lying about who he is because he’s simply too lazy to get you something.
Me and my friends don’t celebrate birthdays or Christmas with each other anymore. It’s expensive to give everyone gifts when we have bills to pay, so we stopped gift giving a long time ago.
Our exception is our other halves and children get gifts.
So it seems strange that he chooses to continue to gift give friends but not you. That from the other comment, that he was extremely happy with his gift.
Yeah, he’s lying about not being a gift giver or receiver, he just doesn’t want to gift you.
I love her enough to want to see her happy, who knows maybe her happiness lies with that guy?
Your husband is a child!!
I think it would be best to dump his ass if after 7 years of marriage he feels this way!!
OP didn't say it wasn't physical
Nope. I don't see a real future with this fellow. Don't you wonder about what/who he's picturing in head while you have sex… can he see your facial expressions when having sex? You are horrified .
7 years is a drop in the bucket move on You deserve to be in a happy loving relationship
Start reevaluating your relationship with her. Seriously her proposal was underwhelming. Becuase it didn't have fireworks or dramatic lighting and photos.
Ask her what she wants if she wants a marriage or does she just want a wedding. Becuase it seems she just wants to be the center of drama and to hell with you. You seem to have just a supporting role.
My husband love this man proposed to me in a McDonald's.
There's no violence for sure. I am afraid to ask him…
So he has energy to stare at naked women on social media and jack off to porn regularly. Yet has no energy sexually for you. He isn't prioritizing you…he is prioritizing lust for other women.
I'm so sorry he raped you. Besides dumping his ass, please report him to the police.