About 3 months isn’t 3 months. It’s not even a single season which isn’t long enough to know if you love someone let alone to know if you should consider marriage. While what he did was a shock he did you a favor by letting you know now. As you seem to already have a strong attachment to him and it’s not even 3 months in my advice is to end it now and not wait because it will end badly for you.
I mean he isn’t the one in a relationship, so he can do what he likes.
That being said, how would he feel if he was in a relationship and his girl was doing this with another guy??
Don’t date people who behave in an untrustworthy way.
don't know how to proceed
Yea, you do.
You just don’t like the idea of being single. It’s unfamiliar, especially after 8 years. But still better than dating someone you can’t trust.
Get out of there.
About 3 months isn’t 3 months. It’s not even a single season which isn’t long enough to know if you love someone let alone to know if you should consider marriage. While what he did was a shock he did you a favor by letting you know now. As you seem to already have a strong attachment to him and it’s not even 3 months in my advice is to end it now and not wait because it will end badly for you.
What?? You are doing exactly the same thing she did yet you are worried about her behavior? Are you even hearing yourself right now? How dumb are you?
'should we attend couples counselling as we have some bad traits in our relationship that we need to work on?'
'sounds like you have some unhealthy patterns happening in your relationship'
that is the exact reason why i was asking….
Do not engage with him sexually at all until he sees a doctor. This could be a life threatening situation