You're making the right call, man. Thinking long-term. Strategically. With wisdom.
You're wise beyond many at your age. Good on you.
She'll likely flip out and call you controlling or say you're overreacting or jealous. That's what they did when I did the same. Just stick to your guns and say you want two different things out of relationships and leave it at that. Have any stuff of hers ready to give back to her so you can make a clean cut.
You're making the right call, man. Thinking long-term. Strategically. With wisdom.
You're wise beyond many at your age. Good on you.
She'll likely flip out and call you controlling or say you're overreacting or jealous. That's what they did when I did the same. Just stick to your guns and say you want two different things out of relationships and leave it at that. Have any stuff of hers ready to give back to her so you can make a clean cut.
You need to establish boundaries with this man. Avoidance will not work. He will separate you from your social circle and the continue to hammer away at your resistance. He is a sex pest and you are his prey.it sounds like noone else in your friend group is aware of his behavior. They have to be made aware. Noone wants a secret sex pest in their friend circle. He needs to know thar if he forces you to sit next to him you will get up and move. He has to KNOW that, and then he will stop. I'd tell my boyfreind about it dude needs his ass kicked.
The only way you can reasonably move forward is to talk about it. This is an issue that does need to be talked about if your relationship is going to survive.
I know you said you went to therapy to deal with your mental health, have you considered couples therapy so that you can talk this through with the help of a professional? Aside from that, has he seen a GP to rule out any medical problems (depression or some kind of hormone imbalance?).
This isn’t sustainable, and if refuses to speak to someone, then something is going to have to give here. Either your mental health/self esteem, or the relationship.
Advice is welcome!
Fuck you. Hope you never ever find anyone that loves you as much as that man did. Fuck you, fuck you, fuck you.
100% agree with this.
You're making the right call, man. Thinking long-term. Strategically. With wisdom.
You're wise beyond many at your age. Good on you.
She'll likely flip out and call you controlling or say you're overreacting or jealous. That's what they did when I did the same. Just stick to your guns and say you want two different things out of relationships and leave it at that. Have any stuff of hers ready to give back to her so you can make a clean cut.
You're making the right call, man. Thinking long-term. Strategically. With wisdom.
You're wise beyond many at your age. Good on you.
She'll likely flip out and call you controlling or say you're overreacting or jealous. That's what they did when I did the same. Just stick to your guns and say you want two different things out of relationships and leave it at that. Have any stuff of hers ready to give back to her so you can make a clean cut.
why did you ever marry him in the first place? it seems like he’s been acting this way consistently. the longer you stay, the harder your life gets
You need to establish boundaries with this man. Avoidance will not work. He will separate you from your social circle and the continue to hammer away at your resistance. He is a sex pest and you are his prey.it sounds like noone else in your friend group is aware of his behavior. They have to be made aware. Noone wants a secret sex pest in their friend circle. He needs to know thar if he forces you to sit next to him you will get up and move. He has to KNOW that, and then he will stop. I'd tell my boyfreind about it dude needs his ass kicked.
The only way you can reasonably move forward is to talk about it. This is an issue that does need to be talked about if your relationship is going to survive.
I know you said you went to therapy to deal with your mental health, have you considered couples therapy so that you can talk this through with the help of a professional? Aside from that, has he seen a GP to rule out any medical problems (depression or some kind of hormone imbalance?).
This isn’t sustainable, and if refuses to speak to someone, then something is going to have to give here. Either your mental health/self esteem, or the relationship.
Hm I never heard of a cheap laugh. Can you tell me what it means?