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gonna be honest he will not take it well and it may end your relationship, thats a risk with this, but if you cant visit then dont. Just be honest with him and tell him the truth, but honestly be prepared for this to cause a big fight and potentially end the relationship
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A few weeks and he’s already trying to control you. Run for the hills!
I don't think you're going to like my advice, but here we go. I took a look at your post history (for additional context clues) and my advice is to burn the letter and be done. You're restarting your life with a new job that you enjoy, and can meet people there. Make friends. Expand your horizons. Taje some time for you. It would be a major step back to reconcile with someone who treated you and your relationship so very poorly. You deserve better than that. She did this to you multiple times over the years, my friend. That is not someone who is worthy of your attention and affections. She figuratively stood in front of you, pretending to be the person you fell in love with, all the while, twirling her fingers like a campy villain and carrying on relations behind your back. You deserve better than that. Have you spoken to a therapist since your breakup? It seems that you're in mourning over the relationship you thought you had / hope for and not what the relationship actually was. That's a pretty huge character flaw in my opinion.
Well, do you want to be in a relationship with a cat?
The top commenter said to stop enabling her. Do that. If she doubles down on it. Have a conversation through messages where she cannot interrupt with the meows and discuss going to couples therapy, or having an honest no cat/meowing conversation where you state your boundaries.
This is not okay. If it’s pet play or being a furry she can do that in her own time without pulling you in without your consent. It’s gone too far to be a little joke.
You have to be firm about it now. She’s using it as a method to not have to talk about stuff she doesn’t want to. And you’ve so far accepted it without her having any consequences so why should she stop?
That said, is this really a relationship that’s working for you? Even though you’ve been together for a while, you’re clearly over this cat reaction act. But – she doesn’t care. She doesn’t care to bond with you like partners, doesn’t want to have mature conversations with you like partners do. She’s trampling all over you boundaries and doesn’t care about your feelings. She doesn’t sound like she cares about you.
A couple of years may sound like you’ve been together a while but you’re still young. You deserve someone- who isn’t a cat. And who actually cares about your boundaries and feelings. Maybe she’s finally showing her true self to you since it’s been long enough.
Regardless stop enabling her cat reactions and force her to sit down and talk about it.
I would say at that stage it’s more infatuation (for most people at least, of course there are always exceptions).
And honestly, it took everything in me to not laugh at my sister because the story she gave me
the sister basically let her get r*ped. (according to her and the video) when you take a nude look at it, with the booze and the drugs, that is what she did, she didn't help her friend, like any normal person would from the bar to the hotel room, she said, nah I'm gonna let this person I know doesn't want to be here get violated.
RUUUUUUUN
knocking up to lock you in? what are you an object or a human being, you are absolutely instinctively right to want to break up, your gut feeling is spot on!
Don't do it. It'll ruin everything.
ETA: I just read about possible blackmail and….. I’m wrong. The thought of her going nuts to pay some blackmail and trying to keep that a secret during you marriage, you should tell her you know. Do it in the kindest, nonjudgmental, loving way you can so she doesn’t feel ashamed or think you are judging.
Are you a psychologist? You sound like you have some expertise in this area. What else do you recommend, beyond ET and CBT?
What IS psychodynamic insightbend?
I still get anxious and would like to consider this if my therapist knows how to do it.