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1. I understand your frustration. You probably want to do stuff with him and look forward to something and be excited about it. You maybe want a little safety, too that the things you want to do with him will actually happen.

   I don't know if that is the case with your boyfriend but I learned some people don't want to plan because they feel controlled and refuse to give clear answers to stay in control. Also some seem to feel a sense of power over you seeing you excited for something and then turning you down.

   It could also be your boyfriend did like to play with you and doesn't want to finish the game because it was so much fun and wants to preserve that. Still he could just tell you and not put the blame on you wanting to plan.

   Asking your boyfriend to play is not planning everything out.

   It is funny because I am in your situation. I want to play with my friend but he is always busy with other stuff. Often I wait for him to be ready and fail to plan my own things. I'm working on changing that and I thank you for telling about Detroit Becomes Human. It seems really interesting and I am going to try that later.

   I am pretty sure your boyfriend doesn't hate playing with you. Try to do more things by yourself and for yourself. Don't depend on him for having fun.

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2. Thank you for your response. I think I could forgive and move forward if he apologized and took responsibility but I don’t think he wants that. I think he wants to be friends just to soothe his own guilt and conscience ?.

   Funny enough he broke it off with me before I could pull the trigger. The conversation went so fast. I think he said something like “I don’t want this relationship,” and I agreed.

   I was hoping that maybe it wasn’t a show. That he’s just not good at expressing himself and that him being nice to me is a way of communicating…but I think I’m foolish for thinking this…he has to apologize properly.

   I’m so sad. I meant so little to him

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3. The advice you gave has nothing to do with my post. You’re just being a dick now lmao

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4. Why do you need to work full-time? Get a part-time job and you will have enough time for the baby and the household. Also: in case both of you work full-time, everything else should also be split 50/50 – cleaning, cooking, shopping etc.

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5. You don't trust it, and for good reason. If that's her reasoning, you aren't actually going to get around it

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6. It's really sus that he lied about it like that. He could definitely be using it to DM people and hide it from you. I think it's worth at least asking him about

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7. Solution: “it’s difficult” or “they’re difficult” don’t mean a damn thing. Trying to broach the subject leads to an argument, and presumably one you can’t win, because you’re generalizing and dealing with abstract feelings… don’t…

   Find a SPECIFIC difficult part and IDENTIFY IT. You say you have no authority but are EXPECTED to act the part of a parent, well this should now start being a little clearer: exploit the problem so SHE CAN EXPERIENCE it.

   She experiences the same problem(s) with authority and has no idea how you’re viewing them. Once you do what she says, as she says it, and the kid does the obvious thing and does whatever he’s going to do anyways and cause problems, then YOU CAN POINT AT IT AS AN EXAMPLE.

   Cite what the child did, cite your response that she required from you, demonstrate things have only become worse and THIS is what you’re referring to and it NEEDS to change, no exceptions (if there is any argument or pushback at this point you obviously didn’t pick a drastic enough situation/problem to begin with) and then cite ALL the other occurrences and repeat for each additional problem.

   Obviously it’s not going to work and the relationship will end, but there is now NO QUESTION on their part that their kid was responsible for it and hopefully they can stop blaming/arguing with you and deal with their kid’s issues before their next relationship.

   Of course you could just say whatever and leave, but even if you’re honest it’s going to be funneled through their “my child does not wrong” lenses if you don’t DRASTICALLY showcase the child’s problems/misbehaviors to the mother directly (don’t be afraid to setup nanny-cams and recording devices, a child thinking their mother doesn’t see/hear what they’re saying to you and THEN showing it to her will open her eyes)

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8. He’s trying to control you, he’s out having fun why can’t you? Move on and have a happy healthy relationship

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9. She learned bad behaviours from her parents but she's an adult now and a parent. She has to take responsibility for her own behaviour now because it's her fault she's behaving this way at this age.

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10. Being friends after isn't keeping a stable. Smh. Women can be friends with guys, this comment is stupid

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