Yup, these seem-to-be trivial things can make relationships very uncomfortable. I don’t wanna date someone who’d guaranteedly make me feel stress whenever we meet
You explicitly told him not to do something, and he went ahead and did it anyways. He couldn't control himself and basically acted on his animalistic behavior.
Cherry on top is that he finished without you. Double cherry on top is that he is cowardly trying to communicate with you, without acknowledging what happen.
Now, you're debating to tell him how you feel, and I assume you're going to expect an apology.
Do you want to be involved with someone that you have to explain why they need to apologize? This is something he should be doing on his own accord, without you needing to put it into motion.
This guy is incredibly selfish. He couldn't handle a simple boundary out the gate… I doubt it will improve, that behavior is going to manifest elsewhere. I don't advise further entertaining him.
This is why I always caution my kids to avoid an LDR.
I know this sucks for you, but she isn't your problem anymore, and you need to go NC. If you don't go NC and take her back, then any subsequent heartache and pain you suffer at her hands will be on you. You've finally seen what type of trash person she is, and no amount of past hardship in her life can excuse what she's done to you.
Sounds like she’s in a relationship and using you for attention on the side.
Red flags, sorry op, your marriage is on a wreck.
Open relationships won't fix anything!
These are all questions I have myself. This moment is just proof that I need to accept the reality.
Yup, these seem-to-be trivial things can make relationships very uncomfortable. I don’t wanna date someone who’d guaranteedly make me feel stress whenever we meet
I had never heard of a co-parenting app but it’s so logical.
This is why you talk to a lawyer first. find out what you need to do to get priority.
talking to a lawyer does not mean you have to divorce, Only to get the information to make your own choice of what is better for you
Is this a deal-breaker for you?
This would have been one for me…
You explicitly told him not to do something, and he went ahead and did it anyways. He couldn't control himself and basically acted on his animalistic behavior.
Cherry on top is that he finished without you. Double cherry on top is that he is cowardly trying to communicate with you, without acknowledging what happen.
Now, you're debating to tell him how you feel, and I assume you're going to expect an apology.
Do you want to be involved with someone that you have to explain why they need to apologize? This is something he should be doing on his own accord, without you needing to put it into motion.
This guy is incredibly selfish. He couldn't handle a simple boundary out the gate… I doubt it will improve, that behavior is going to manifest elsewhere. I don't advise further entertaining him.
This is why I always caution my kids to avoid an LDR.
I know this sucks for you, but she isn't your problem anymore, and you need to go NC. If you don't go NC and take her back, then any subsequent heartache and pain you suffer at her hands will be on you. You've finally seen what type of trash person she is, and no amount of past hardship in her life can excuse what she's done to you.