Personally, I believe that love means wanting to do things that make the other person happy. I would expect that if marriage doesn't mean anything to him, but you told him it is something you want, he would want ro do it to make you happy, and that would include paying half or saving together. Most men I know would want to get the money together and surprise them girlfriend by saying they have the money and can get married like she wants. They would be happy with the expression of joy on her face and to provide her with something that makes her happy. The fact that you are the bread winner would make me think he would want to go the extra mile to provide you things to make you happy. But also, with you being the breadwinner, it's understandable that he may just flat out nit be to be able to afford it….. Although, I don't really think I fair of him to put so much financial burden on you and, you may resent it one day.
Well yeah, but why? But I also don’t think that’s strictly true. Men’s nipples are as much of an erogenous zone as women’s are. Not to mention that some people have a foot thing, does that mean sandals aren’t allowed? Ears are an erogenous zone as well, should we all be walking around with earmuffs on? I know plenty of women who find men’s chests sexual. There’s a double standard, which results in women’s bodies being policed in a way men’s bodies aren’t, which is my point.
If it was me I would tell my mother to get her big girl pants on and suck it up. If she really cares about you she should be able to put her feelings aside for just one day. IMO it’s very petty and childish for her to go screaming at other peoples major life events.
I only think his treatment to me is because of her because he only started treating me this way after he found out we were dating. But yeah his ex was controlling everything and when we would hang out but i was actually able to hang with him 4 days out of the week. We use to text all the time but as soon as he found out everything ceased
Thanks for your honest opinion, maybe you are right, but maybe not. If I had read this a few weeks ago, I guess my reaction could be similar, but this situation now overhelmed me, because I never had anything like it.
Just as many men do the same fucked up thing. Fucked up and broken is gender blind.
And we are all chandler wondering if we are back on time.
She has a mental health problem or she’s extremely clueless and/ or inconsiderate. You’re not crazy for reaching ur limit with this bs
Personally, I believe that love means wanting to do things that make the other person happy. I would expect that if marriage doesn't mean anything to him, but you told him it is something you want, he would want ro do it to make you happy, and that would include paying half or saving together. Most men I know would want to get the money together and surprise them girlfriend by saying they have the money and can get married like she wants. They would be happy with the expression of joy on her face and to provide her with something that makes her happy. The fact that you are the bread winner would make me think he would want to go the extra mile to provide you things to make you happy. But also, with you being the breadwinner, it's understandable that he may just flat out nit be to be able to afford it….. Although, I don't really think I fair of him to put so much financial burden on you and, you may resent it one day.
Sounds like you made a friend. That’s allowed. She’s not manipulating you by existing and bonding with you.
“She loves him so much she cheated and hid it for 10 years! We can’t judge this actions, that would be crazy for a sub about relationship advice!”
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A big two mistakes.
Well yeah, but why? But I also don’t think that’s strictly true. Men’s nipples are as much of an erogenous zone as women’s are. Not to mention that some people have a foot thing, does that mean sandals aren’t allowed? Ears are an erogenous zone as well, should we all be walking around with earmuffs on? I know plenty of women who find men’s chests sexual. There’s a double standard, which results in women’s bodies being policed in a way men’s bodies aren’t, which is my point.
If it was me I would tell my mother to get her big girl pants on and suck it up. If she really cares about you she should be able to put her feelings aside for just one day. IMO it’s very petty and childish for her to go screaming at other peoples major life events.
I only think his treatment to me is because of her because he only started treating me this way after he found out we were dating. But yeah his ex was controlling everything and when we would hang out but i was actually able to hang with him 4 days out of the week. We use to text all the time but as soon as he found out everything ceased
Thanks for your honest opinion, maybe you are right, but maybe not. If I had read this a few weeks ago, I guess my reaction could be similar, but this situation now overhelmed me, because I never had anything like it.