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Date: October 8, 2022
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I would tell her you was going for moral support. For one she could have hid that she was going to see him for the apology in the first place but apparently she came to you and let you know he hit her up and wanted to apologize. I feel if she really was on bs and knew it she wouldn’t have told you at all. Or she may want to you and need you to tell her that you don’t think it’s a good idea. If she don’t want you to come then it’s a big ?.
I feel the same way about cum. Thankfully my hubby of 19 years is now very accepting of my boundaries. He used to be kind of insistent that swallowing would make him feel more loved and accepted, but as we’ve aged he stopped doing that and now says he doesn’t need that to know he’s loved. He has NEVER purposely finished in my mouth, but once or twice I got a little bit in my mouth before he pulled away…and of course I gag/puke when that happens and he’s very apologetic. If your bf repeatedly ignores your boundaries, then you need to question his “love” for you because he is selfishly sexually abusing you. He’s just using you without any consideration for your feelings. I would communicate how deeply this hurts you and tell him it is a dealbreaker. Leave if his behavior doesn’t change.
I know. It sucks. My ex had moved on but my ex told me that my daughter was asking about me and my family. Some of the kids in her school had both parents and she wanted to know about her father. If I had known I would have been there. My own father walked out on my family years ago. I didn’t want to make that mistake. So trying to catch up.
She is in a way.
He has stated over and over this is all he wants.
Few people could be happy like that, so I don’t blame her for not being cool with only staying at home. Or not being able to talk about issues, that’s unacceptable.
It’s her job to listen, and act in her best interests.
You can’t help her, because the only person holding her back from being happy is her until she leaves this relationship that will never be anything she wants.
Never move into a woman's house. Just never.
There is another possibility: fibromyalgia. Pressure is registered as pain. If you often feel tender to the touch, like how most people feel at a bruised location, the it could be this or some other medical issue.
If it's not that, then yes, I agree with everyone else, he is a sadist and is bullying you and you need to run before it gets worse.
“Several months” is actually the point in the new relationship when people are supposed to evaluate the longterm suitability of the person they're dating. It's important to take a clear view of things as the “honeymoon phase” ends to see if what's left is suitable for a future together. If he's not “romantic” and you demand that then it only makes sense to question whether you two are a good fit. No one wants pressure to be something they're not. Trying to force someone to change their behaviors isn't a good way to proceed in a relationship.
Run. RUN. Run to a therapist so you can sort out your codependency and self-esteem issues, run to find some hobbies to expand your friend circle, and run away from this dude and his weird family situation.
I feel for you, I really do. You’ve been with this person for a long time and it’s nude to accept that it’s over. But there are so many red flags you’re drowning in them. Not spending time with his family, not living together after 7 years, his apparent lack of motivation and dedication to you, your unhealthy dependence on him…. He’s just not that into you, and you both deserve to find someone who you with better.
And yes, you need to go no contact. Block his number, remove his info from your phone, and put notes all over the house that remind you why you won’t be reaching out or showing up at his house. You’re moving on, you’re growing, and you don’t need him anymore. Period.