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Date: April 16, 2023
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and all she’s done for him! just kinda like pay ur dues and move on?
Your situation reminded me of something that happened to me a few years ago with the guy I was dating. I shared one of my traumas with him to help him understand a reaction I had. He basically sided with my aggressor and said he understood him, and it was my fault. I was stunned and felt like he had hit me. In the end, this guy ended up being even worse than my ex and I am still recovering from this relationship. I only saw later on that all the red flags were there since the beginning.
What I learnt from this is to be extremely careful with anyone who invalidates your traumas. Beyond being a lack of respect and empathy, it could actually hide someone with the same tendencies. It can be naked to see red flags with pink-tinted glasses, but I really encourage you to try and ask yourself whether this relationship is allowing you to thrive or not. It's ok to put yourself and your mental health first
Exactly. He's making promises to change he can't possibly keep (and likely has no intention of keeping) just to weasel back into OP's good graces. Abusers gonna abuse.