You're one of the worst people I've ever encountered on Reddit. That's saying something. You should break up with both women and stay the hell alone, like you deserve. Do you have any concept of how much pain and devastation it could bring to both women? How can you look at yourself? How do you sleep, being such a selfish person and compulsive liar?
Look, you are an adult and it's totally ok to change your mind after reflecting on your past. If there're no major events like cheating or abuse involved, there is nothing wrong with catching up again after some period of time. Take him to the game if you want to, maybe gifting is your love language, who knows…
Lol there is it is. I knew you were a cheating apologist for a reason. It's always the mfs that do this kinda dirt that don't really get the damage it can do.
Seems like you need to take the initiative in this relationship and see how it goes. He’s saying that he’ll put in more effort if he see’s you putting in more effort. Might as well have him put his money where his mouth is.
Surprise him with something he likes. Take him out to dinner or a movie. Give him a nice massage. Go the extra mile, show how much you care in a loving way.
Update
It's his sister. And she's practically a kid. Should he make her on-line on the street?
You're one of the worst people I've ever encountered on Reddit. That's saying something. You should break up with both women and stay the hell alone, like you deserve. Do you have any concept of how much pain and devastation it could bring to both women? How can you look at yourself? How do you sleep, being such a selfish person and compulsive liar?
I'm not entirely the problem, read my final thoughts comment.
Look, you are an adult and it's totally ok to change your mind after reflecting on your past. If there're no major events like cheating or abuse involved, there is nothing wrong with catching up again after some period of time. Take him to the game if you want to, maybe gifting is your love language, who knows…
Lol there is it is. I knew you were a cheating apologist for a reason. It's always the mfs that do this kinda dirt that don't really get the damage it can do.
Seems like you need to take the initiative in this relationship and see how it goes. He’s saying that he’ll put in more effort if he see’s you putting in more effort. Might as well have him put his money where his mouth is.
Surprise him with something he likes. Take him out to dinner or a movie. Give him a nice massage. Go the extra mile, show how much you care in a loving way.