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Date: November 2, 2022
I'm looking out for OP's social interests here, and also taking her motivation into account.
Her ex and this girl aren't in a monogamous relationship yet, so chances are good that if OP interferes by bringing this up to the other girl without being asked, they will still get together, and OP will be painted as the bitter ex who tried to derail their relationship. It isn't fair, but it is the most likely outcome, especially if d-bag says she's lying and she doesn't have proof.
The reason for this is actually the same as my main reason for telling her it isn't her place— OP's motivation is suspect. She is clearly very emotionally entangled with this guy, and it would be understandable if she had territorial or jealous feelings over this, or if she were to feel hurt or used after this incident and want revenge. And it's good policy in general to take a step back from things you've been advised not to do and examine your motivation. If personal gain or revenge is one of your main reasons for wanting to interfere in someone else's relationship, that should always give you pause.
Since this situation is dicey, OP's best move is to be honest, but not to bring this up out of context or reach out to this person she doesn't know who is likely to disbelieve or dismiss her anyway, possibly kicking up some drama in the process. People rarely thank the messenger for volunteering bad news, especially if the messenger is that clingy ex girlfriend you've heard about but never met.
But if she asks, or if somebody else asks OP in front of her, etc., then OP should be honest and report the facts.
I am going to be downvoted to hell for this but here goes. This happened to me when I was younger than you (19) and she was about that age. Mother wanted a sibling for existing child, was married to rich impotent guy, and lived in country with huge child support. I met the kid for the first time a few years back and we get on fine. He has three step siblings all raised in similar circumstances and they all get in fine too. Is it ideal? No. Does everyone seem happy? Yes. But, there are issues. In a lot of countries you will be hit up for child support and can't sign that away. Now, I'm going to get downvoted so I won't be able to answer your questions, but good luck.
What will keep him from leaving this time around?
some people are just filthy, you can't really change them, they are clearly ok with the state of cleanliness and either you find a way to accept it, you never go over, or you find someone more closely aligned to your values. i would be worried too, like if its as bad as hoarders that is a huge warning flag. some of these folks blend in and try to pretend they're following societal norms but eventually things slowly start to slip away. based on the things you mention it sounds like you're young in your early mid 20s at most. just wait a decade and you'll see how much much worse it will get. she needs something very serious to snap her out of it, ironically if you break up that may do it and her next partner will benefit from the pain you endured.
I fully agree that different races tend to have different amounts of hair, I'm just saying that it's not necessarily true for them as a whole
I think she was probably very attracted to OP just after the one date, and has been bitter about him not reaching out for a second date.
Bottom line, she's probably not that happy with whoever she's dating…if she's even dating anyone.
You clearly didn’t read the comment you replied to as it clearly states there’s a chance if either party has the brown eye dominant gene.
You’re dumb as fuck bro.
If he likes you, you'll know. If he doesn't like you, you'll be confused. He doesn't like you. You are waiting for him. Why do you have to wait for someone else to decide on what's next in your love life. Dump him and move on.
sounds like a teenager going through puberty. Drop the dickhead
If he's willing to sign over the house to her, and put (at least some of) his $ in trust for HIS son, she should take him up on it. Maybe, with some space and piece, they can make it back to each other. If not, he pays the cost of his abysmal treatment of his pregnant wife.
LOL… that might be true, but it won't be someone quality.
Nowhere in my comment am I saying that what he did was right, of course it was a shitty thing to do!
I’m not victim blaming, I’m just trying to understand the situation better. And I absolutely agree with you that he should respect her wishes regardless. “He wouldn’t let me” refers to him not letting her get a condom, and of course he shouldn’t do that.
But accusing someone of RAPE is a big deal, in my book, so I was just wanting some more information before laying that harsh of a judgement on the matter.
I myself am a victim of rape, but I also have had male friends accused of it. One girl had cheated on her bf, but didn’t want to confess when she got caught, so she instead accused my friend. So I try to have an open mind on these matters and se both sides, especially when the information is as vague as in the OP.
A separation is just gonna give her time to cheat and cheat and cheat. Either stay there together and work it out or divorce. Separations are for fools.
Mayo and saranwrap overnight is what we did. After you do this, you do it a second time like a week later to catch anthing that might have hatched before it's old enough to lay more eggs.
We tried all kinds of commercial products first, and those little assholes kept coming back. Seriously, like 3 different shampoos and endless lice brushing, but the Saran wrap/Mayo method worked like a charm and was WAY less costly.
She admits that we are not on the same page in terms of commitment, but she admitted it is a regretful point for her that she can't commit the same way because she feels she can't present me to her family because her family has higher standards and they will instantly reject me. She can't jeopardize her relationship with her family.
How long were you together beforehand exactly?
This. NEVER compare how your partner is reacting to other people's partners.
I also hate water parks and would hate to spend an entire week at one essentially doing nothing.
I'll bring it up but I don't want to force them to like me. And I'm afraid it's going to come off like that.
Well if he's not gay then she should take it as a sign that he desperately wants her to believe he is.
its not lube , and i dont either , but thats what she said she literally said “i used a condom lotion and water to make the puss noises”
What do you get out of this relationship?
Sounds like he has it made, you come to him on his terms and then do all his cleaning.
Opening a relationship goes south more often than not for couples that BOTH thought they were up to it. If you’re having doubts, please do not agree to it. Better ending the relationship than letting it destroy you. If she’s gone to lengths to avoid guys just because wasn’t happy with her sex life and didn’t want to cheat, I mean it’s better than cheating but it also says a lot about her. No normal person cheats or thinks about cheating on someone they love just because of their sex life. You either try and fix it or you break up. Opening the relationship just sounds like a cheap excuse. That or she’s saying you’ll never be enough for her