+1 on this one. i don't see anything wrong with what he did based up on your current arrangement. you're not FWB yet you literally just had a ONS with him.
Don't dump him immediately, instead demand that the relationship be open on both ends because he doesn't satisfy you either. It doesn't really matter if he does or not, and when pressed be as vague as possible. Give him a complex. When he starts getting upset (and he will), ask why it was okay for him to demean you but not the other way around. While he's grasping for stupid excuses, walk out on him and don't look back.
You should try to find a friend who has a young child and send your gf to live with her for a while to see how is to have a young child, how hard is to take care, how expensive are baby related things like diapers and formula. Your gf might have an idealized image about parenthood, a baby is a real human, not a doll.
No, not at all.
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+1 on this one. i don't see anything wrong with what he did based up on your current arrangement. you're not FWB yet you literally just had a ONS with him.
Don't dump him immediately, instead demand that the relationship be open on both ends because he doesn't satisfy you either. It doesn't really matter if he does or not, and when pressed be as vague as possible. Give him a complex. When he starts getting upset (and he will), ask why it was okay for him to demean you but not the other way around. While he's grasping for stupid excuses, walk out on him and don't look back.
Money doesn’t always mean brains. You’re going to have to say it like he’s 5.
So tell him in black and white and go from there.
I really don’t think he will react badly, but one of my friends said it’s better safe than sorry.
I’m not doing this again. See the other responses.
You’re only 24 so consider yourself lucky. You’ll find someone better for you
You should try to find a friend who has a young child and send your gf to live with her for a while to see how is to have a young child, how hard is to take care, how expensive are baby related things like diapers and formula. Your gf might have an idealized image about parenthood, a baby is a real human, not a doll.