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Date: October 14, 2022
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It's not that you're a villain. You do appear to feel competition with your dad's girlfriend. It's that the way you're approaching this is going to lead to nothing good. You're pissed, we get that. But, unfortunately, your dad is asking you to be the adult in the situation when you're the youngest person there.
But, there are going to be many times in your adult life that you have to play nice to someone. It sucks. They suck. But just remember that if you continue with this approach, you're the one whose going to be left out. Which would suck less?
Tell your dad that you love him, you want the very best for him. So you will be nicer to his girlfriend. Then ask them to have a sitdown conversation about their expectations. And ask them to hear you out too. That way your dad is privy to whatever his girlfriend says she wants. This might be the right time to ask about your dad's wishes when his girlfriend asks you to do tasks around the house. You can't be snarky because this won't work if you're throwing eye daggers at her.
Look, this situation sounds terrible but you're using the wrong roadmap. Let's say you've lived in New York your whole life. You know how to navigate and be good at reading the roadmap for New York. But then something shifts and you unwillingly have to move to New Jersey. You don't want to be there so you continue to try to make the New York map work. But it won't work. So get your bearings and start navigating for what IS happening (New Jersey) not what you want to happen (New York). I'm sorry you have to do that. I hope that relationship burns out soon.
I'm not gonna waste my time arguing about the ethics of abortion.
Have you tried telling him how you feel?
You’ve been checked out of your current relationship for a year and want try another one? One with a coworker that’s younger? Your life is going to get messier. Leave the coworker alone. Focus on your current relationshi. If that doesn’t work out then end things as smoothly as possible and start to separate finances and remember the cushy life you have may no longer exist. Do what’s best for you but this current emotional affair with your coworker isn’t right.
Yeah I guess I just don't want to let him go cause he does treat me really well and is very sweet. But I guess I just need to do more thinking on whether this could work for me.
As someone who is admittedly just like the gf…. Almost thought this was about my for a second before the examples…. It’s not fair of us to belittle our significant others, even if they are not stepping up to the plate to handle problems. She (and I) need to work on our language around these feelings of having to be the competent one and when it is necessary and when it is us feeling like we need to be the one who solves all the problems instead of letting others take life at their own pace.
But for you, it is so incredibly frustrating to feel “held back” by somebody. Ran out of gas? My job to fix it. Afraid of the hill? My job to make you comfortable at my own expense. Trouble teaching someone to swim? My job too. It’s exhausting and it makes us bitter.
You both need work. My therapist says I should consider couples therapy to held deal with this dynamic. If the relationship is worth it to you I guess I suggest the same.
In all kindness – block her phone, her email, her IM, DM and whatever other M there is. Her life is no longer worth your time and energy. She no longer exists in your world.
What she said a week ago is irrelevant. It could be true, it could be a lie, she could have been sparing your feelings. It honestly doesn't matter which.
Go eat food she hated, what movies you like, go on-line your own life.
Stop letting her online rent free in your head.