Wait, so blind trust is more paramount than fidelity?
I mean, I really hope for their sake, that there's nothing going on, but yeah – no. Her cheating is a MUCH bigger problem than his worrying. Honestly, she's actually given him a reason not to trust fully.
He doesn’t sound like much of a friend tbh. Y’all were literal children when you dated and it’s been nearly a decade but he’s still harping on it? That’s not how a friend behaves.
NINE MONTHS after getting an abortion, it has nothing to do with hormones from having an abortion almost a year previous
You might want to recalculate that? Like a woman who's not yet pregnant isn't going to get an abortion. Unless you're calling the morning-after pill abortion?
Most women get their abortion around 10-12 weeks. So they'd have been due just six months later.
And FYI any emotion you have ever felt has been driven by your hormones.
We did hang out sometimes, eat dinner, etc. but what you're saying isn't how I feel about her. I do know that's how it came across and there's nothing I can do about it now except not to do it again.
All you can do is work on yourself. It’s his decision if he ever wants a relationship with you.
Go to therapy and figure out why you did what you did and ways to cope with it. Communicating with him is the last thing you need to do right now. You need to focus on Yourself first.
If he wants to talk to you then talk to him but you will have a very long way to go. You have to rebuild a 10 year friendship before you could ever date him. And honestly dating him should be the last thing you ever think of.
You went perfectly fine for 13 years without knowing he existed. You don’t want to lose your wife and kids. Well, it’s simple math; just send child support without getting involved in his life. At all.
Terrible advice. He's obviously doing this intentionally. The only reason someone would laugh in that situation is to degrade someone and make them feel small.
Read his comments. The married man was in an open relationship and his wife knew. The gf slept with his best friend before they got together.
Wait, so blind trust is more paramount than fidelity?
I mean, I really hope for their sake, that there's nothing going on, but yeah – no. Her cheating is a MUCH bigger problem than his worrying. Honestly, she's actually given him a reason not to trust fully.
if OP were male you wouldn't write that
I just………. Idk…..I wonder if she has always been this way and she is just showing her true self
He doesn’t sound like much of a friend tbh. Y’all were literal children when you dated and it’s been nearly a decade but he’s still harping on it? That’s not how a friend behaves.
I am also the girlfriend
I can’t
Well if the conversation we’re having continues, that might just be the case.
That was what I was thinking too. But if that is the case than what is he doing is the qeustion?…
Ignoring them doesn’t make them stop because they are so obsessed with me
could you elaborate why it is hardly a pro choice situation?
That’s a scary thought…
NINE MONTHS after getting an abortion, it has nothing to do with hormones from having an abortion almost a year previous
You might want to recalculate that? Like a woman who's not yet pregnant isn't going to get an abortion. Unless you're calling the morning-after pill abortion?
Most women get their abortion around 10-12 weeks. So they'd have been due just six months later.
And FYI any emotion you have ever felt has been driven by your hormones.
We did hang out sometimes, eat dinner, etc. but what you're saying isn't how I feel about her. I do know that's how it came across and there's nothing I can do about it now except not to do it again.
It is only 6 months. It’s unhealthy to try and ‘fix’ someone- they need to do that on their own. Focus on you. Find a new one.
All you can do is work on yourself. It’s his decision if he ever wants a relationship with you.
Go to therapy and figure out why you did what you did and ways to cope with it. Communicating with him is the last thing you need to do right now. You need to focus on Yourself first.
If he wants to talk to you then talk to him but you will have a very long way to go. You have to rebuild a 10 year friendship before you could ever date him. And honestly dating him should be the last thing you ever think of.
You went perfectly fine for 13 years without knowing he existed. You don’t want to lose your wife and kids. Well, it’s simple math; just send child support without getting involved in his life. At all.
Terrible advice. He's obviously doing this intentionally. The only reason someone would laugh in that situation is to degrade someone and make them feel small.