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Sorry for your dog. But no, if she wants confort let her seek for the affair partner, you don't have to do anything there.
Any other concerning behaviors OP? Hyper religiousity can be a sign of mania and he’s at the right age for an onset of symptoms
Adding on to what everyone else is saying, just don’t look at this like an attack of any magnitude on you, and try to have him join you in that mindset. Hopefully that way you guys can try to work it out with clear heads, maybe find a compromise or agree to take things day by day with understanding. Wish you the best.
But we are not that close so him hating me is the least thing I would assume
I have a lot of trauma and attachment issues. some things are just not as simple
Wait… is this from goldenbergs
just break up. It more about how you will raise your kids in the future, big issues
I've been in a similar situation where my bf at the time had strong opinions against substances while I don't. In my case, it was a huge case of misaligned morals – he wasn't trying to be controlling, he genuinely had a very strong moral objection to any substances.
It ended up that we fundamentally disagreed on too many things and the relationship just fizzled out after a few years. I would have a really long think about whether you see yourself with your bf for the rest of your life if nothing changes. If he was exactly the same as he is now for the rest of his life, is he the kind of person you want to be with for another 60 years?
For me and ex bf, the answer was no. We broke up, moved on, and are both delightfully married to other people now that gel with us much better.
The photoshoot and pictures aren't what bothers me. She's openly disrespecting your relationship and your bf seems okay with it.
Rethink the relationship like “a friend's bf” defends their friends behavior. Try to think objectively about what you'd tell her.
I stayed with a guy who made me feel like I was the jealous crazy type, I’m really not and I actually became crazy and irrational staying in that relationship. He’s not going to do what’s necessary for your relationship it’s not worth it for your sanity.
What are you talking about, ‘blaming mom’ , how and for what?
THIS!!! This. SO THIS! Speaking from experience.
I got one for my husband a couple of years ago and he loved it! It has come in handy a few times since… even has capability to charge your phone. Thinking OP might be ungrateful. ?♀️
lol yeah…
My response: “you're using accusatory language as you accuse me of using accusatory language. Do we need to go to therapy because you're intension in questioning my intension of the word why isn't good?”
Sounds like therapy is in order all around.
Tha hell kinda mind games is that? Is she hanging around new friends? Watching podcasts? taking classes at college? I have never seen anyone have an issue with the word why and we are surrounded in a world of people taking offense at words for no good reason these days.
lol he doesn’t love you. Guaranteed he wants to fuck other girls
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Does mommy have a thing for boyfriend? Or is it just me?
I could try that, but we were both pretty uncomfortable after our conversation last night so I might wait a while. I agree that it will probably get worse instead of better, but I like to give people the benefit of the doubt when I can
This isn’t even that subreddit lol, I’m sorry but I can’t listen to what you have to say because I am clearly open with my communication with him and what I ask of him as well as tell him he can ask the same of me and somehow that makes me the problem in your eyes. That makes no sense
Block him. This is an attempt at manipulation. You are not responsible for his actions. He cheated on you.
Then get the DNA test.
Ew. “I always liked the idea of having a legacy”. You're one of those. A child is not a legacy. They're not some weird DNA pawn to be used in making your “family seed” last. Don't be disgusting. If you bring a child into the world they are an individual with their own thoughts, feelings, wants and needs. They are NOT your legacy.
I agree. Marriage is premature in this relationship and the now husband should have worked on himself, set those boundaries and demonstrated that he could put op first before marriage came into being.
Tell her over this weekend so she can have time alone with this information. In person might be harder on her. Over the phone might be best?
Yes you should seek help, you can't expect people to always forgive you
my parents, my nana, and my sister would all be witnesses. seems to me like the next option would be small claims court. i will seek help in a legal sub! thank you for your response, and your time. (:
So he has to ignore her blatantly disregarding their exclusivity. You can’t act like a spoiled child and do whatever you want.
I sure hope this is a troll post. You're 29 not 16. Of course you shouldn't marry him and of course you should stop the relationship.
You marry someone because you are in love and you think they're the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Not because of emotional blackmail. And 1 year is nowhere near long enough to know someone and decide if you want to spend the rest of your life with them. So absolutely take your time in your next relationship.
But as far as this one goes? 1 year has been long enough to know what the rest of your life with this man will be like. Every time he doesn't get his way he will manipulate and emotionally blackmail you.
Makes sense but it’s almost impossible to enforce. Just because something is illegal doesn’t mean anyone cares.
lol are you serious?
“I'm spending so much time on a hobby that I'm neglecting my girlfriend and couldn't even remember her birthday” doesn't get excused just because walking is healthy.
First, get into therapy. Second, wait waaaaay longer than a few months to get engaged.
I work in child protection and come across this. I know someone personally who was 12 when he raped his 8 year old sister. He said “I didn’t exactly knew why it was wrong, but I knew it was wrong as soon as I started.”
This guy claimed he hadn’t been a victim of sexual violence but he was a victim of physical abuse from his parents at times.
Anyway, this family sounds like a mess and it’s time to get away from it. Imagine having kids with a person who sexually groomed and molested their sister. You would never feel safe leaving your kids with him. You will also never get this information out of your head. Who else knows? Who’s safe to talk to in the family? Which adults are hiding abusive skeletons that you will become entrenched with?
She did not take 50%. She calculated how much they each have deposited into the account, then took her share. The monetary value of whatever percentage she contributes decreased, but she’s still contributing the same percentage.
This is why folks need math and have to stop with the “I can’t do math” excuses.
Op is salty she has a new car with her own money and upset at the amount of money she now contributes, instead of seeing the percentage is still the same. once the car is paid off, the amount of money will increase again
What a nightmare to be almost married to someone like this.
He had an affair and now he dating the AF? What he does post breakup is his business, but before is certainly her business.
if you have a significant other, I feel very sorry for them.
You tell him what you're feeling. You let him know why you're being distant/different.
Partners support eachother. Either he can decide to stay with you, support you, and understand the dynamic change, or he can decide it's too much and leave.
Or you decide that right now isnt the time for you to be in a relationship and you split. Figure out yourself and attempt to reconnect in the future. Up to him if he wants to or not. The important thing is that you aren't stringing him along.
Don’t do it. If she wants to be monogamous OK but even then I would worry. Polyamorous relationships are very immature, very shallow and just sexual. There is no ability to develop any depth loyalty longevity. I’m sure there are one or two exceptions here or there but mostly it’s a very young thing. It’ll create distrust fear, so be careful if you decide to go with her even if she’s monogamous.
I do not mean that. I meant “get to know her”, my wording was bad. I do respect her :/ I’m asking for advice on how to start a conversation, I don’t know how.
A bit of a callous response don't you think? I already knew all of this.
I had a similar thing happen to me and my ex GF.
It was a LDR so not exactly the same situation. We lived about 500km away, roughly 10h bus ride.
My ex had to undergo surgery to remove a benign lump on one of her breasts, I was in my 3rd year of college, didn't have a job and was generally broke all the time. She knew that, but she also knew I cared a lot for her and I would not mind rolling the credit card bill for a few months if she wanted me to be by her side. But if she was fine with just her mom looking after her, it would be better so I wouldn't have to deal with the financial burden.
Well, before she went through surgery, we had the following dialogue:
Me: “Hey, do you want me to come to be with you before/after surgery? I can deal with the credit card later”
Her: “No, it's okay, I'll just ask my mom”
Me: “You sure it's ok?”
Her: “Yeah it's fine, really”
Me: “Ok good, then I'll start saving money now to go see you when you are recovered, it will be more fun anyway”
Her: “Yeah sounds like fun!”
And that was it… I could tell she was disappointed, but she told me that it was okay and we could see each other after she had recovered, which I had understood it was a plan.
Well, what happened after all of this? She had surgery, it all went well, she recovered and a few weeks later, when I had enough cash saved, I traveled to see her…only for her to break up with me when I got there.
I was baffled, when I asked why she was breaking up with me, she told me it was because I wasn't there when she had surgery. The dialogue was more or less:
Me: “But I asked you if it was okay for you, you told me it was fine!”
Her: “Clearly it wasn't, I was hoping you would read between the lines, but I guess your credit score is more important”
Me: “What? I told you with clear words that I could deal with the credit card later, you told me not to come because you'd ask your mom”
Her: “Yeah I told you that, but I really was disappointed, I made my tone clear when we spoke. I need to be with someone who cares enough to identify those hints, you clearly didn't care”
Me: “I did care! I did notice you were disappointed, but we immediately made plans to see each other when you recovered. Why would you wait so long to break up with me if it bothered you from the start? Why didn't you simply say that you wanted me there?”
Her: “I need someone who connects with me enough to do what I want without me saying so. We don't have this kind of connection”
So…we broke up. Honestly, it was the best thing that ever happened to me. On my next relationships I made it clear that communication needed to be straightforward, and not based on “reading the room” or “getting hints”.
We are okayish. There is some awkwardness for sure. She still doesn't know why my boyfriend cut her off. I can't bring myself to tell her or anyone.