Do you know why they broke up? What the chances are of this ex coming back? I’ve personally gone back to exes several times and it never worked out any of the times. It was a total waste of my time thinking they changed. If you both have feelings and are attracted to each other, you should try, but give her time to work through her emotions. It’s not fair to you for her to be with you if she’s thinking of someone else.
Have you expressed expressly that “hey sexual intimacy in relationship is very important to me. I’m so glad we click on all these other levels, it makes you even more sexually desirable to me. How do you feel about that? Or where does physical and sexual intimacy rate for you?”
Yeah, pretty much that exactly. I'd have said, taking into account that communication isn't something she's great at, her response has been holding up sex as quite an important thing to her, which she's said since she knew the same about me, which leads to obvious confusion.
Like, if you'd describe yourself as “quite into sexual stuff”, a paraphrasing but an accurate one, the reality differs greatly.
girls night out for some are girls finding club guys to one off. seems like you saw one of her randos. I bet she usually has a male musk to her when she comes home from “girls night”.
I did manual labor at 14. I know what physically demanding is. I’ve also worked in a kitchen, which is 5x harder than any work I’ve seen a waitress do. I’m not saying her job is sedentary, but it is definitely not “physically demanding”.
I want to want sex. I used to actively seek it out before all my reproductive organ issues. It's not a case of “enduring it”, it's that I don't even think about it anymore.
I appreciate this insight. I have lost friends in these ways as well. For this BFF scenario we saw each other almost every day. One person ghosts, and returns X weeks later expecting to normalize the relationship.
No Trust = No Relationship. Sorry.
Do you know why they broke up? What the chances are of this ex coming back? I’ve personally gone back to exes several times and it never worked out any of the times. It was a total waste of my time thinking they changed. If you both have feelings and are attracted to each other, you should try, but give her time to work through her emotions. It’s not fair to you for her to be with you if she’s thinking of someone else.
Ask her what you can do to help her get there. Perhaps you two need some time to yourselves as a couple.
Woo those edits. Girl he is taking advantage of you. Why are you still with this freeloader who cheats on you?
You deserve better. Give yourself the gift of self respect and kick him out.
You are already checked out and are just waiting for him too mess up again. Why waste time? Just end it now.
Have you expressed expressly that “hey sexual intimacy in relationship is very important to me. I’m so glad we click on all these other levels, it makes you even more sexually desirable to me. How do you feel about that? Or where does physical and sexual intimacy rate for you?”
Yeah, pretty much that exactly. I'd have said, taking into account that communication isn't something she's great at, her response has been holding up sex as quite an important thing to her, which she's said since she knew the same about me, which leads to obvious confusion.
Like, if you'd describe yourself as “quite into sexual stuff”, a paraphrasing but an accurate one, the reality differs greatly.
bullshit
Thank goodness.
If youre legally married to her see a lawyer.
You do not want to be on the hook for child support.
For a long distance relationship of only a year, that would be a waste of time, imo.
girls night out for some are girls finding club guys to one off. seems like you saw one of her randos. I bet she usually has a male musk to her when she comes home from “girls night”.
I'd toss her out
I did manual labor at 14. I know what physically demanding is. I’ve also worked in a kitchen, which is 5x harder than any work I’ve seen a waitress do. I’m not saying her job is sedentary, but it is definitely not “physically demanding”.
I want to want sex. I used to actively seek it out before all my reproductive organ issues. It's not a case of “enduring it”, it's that I don't even think about it anymore.
I appreciate this insight. I have lost friends in these ways as well. For this BFF scenario we saw each other almost every day. One person ghosts, and returns X weeks later expecting to normalize the relationship.