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She said no and you kept asking, while disregarding her feeling about the issue.
What do you think is going to happen here?
Especially knowing there’s somebody else that night he send a message to and then he slept with somebody at a party. I will tell the woman and do it today. She has a serial cheater on her hands.
She might be a person with low self-esteem and a defensive mindset who has problems with impulse control, who huddles into her shell when confronted with a difficult discussion.
Or she could be a manipulator who chooses to escalate the issue from a specific problem into a broader context.
Without seeing the two of you together, it is impossible to say which it is. But given that the two of you have apparently *never* been able to resolve any such discussions, I am inclined to believe that this is the latter, and she has found a tool for deflecting blame and neutralizing a discussion about negative behaviours on her part.
In that kind of scenario, the only way that I have found that works to address the issue is to be persistent, without getting angry. An hour or a day after the original discussion, calmly start off with a “so we never actually got to the point of resolving that discussion we had earlier/yesterday”, and continually repeating the same tactic of returning to the discussion after she has reused her tactic of trying to deflect.
Another option, again keeping the calm approach, is to ask her why she insists on always deflecting the discussion and adopting a pose of martyrdom (or self-victimization, which also occurs quite often in these cases).
Ultimately though, whatever the cause of her behaviour,. the more you push and probe, and the more you show you are not willing to let it drop, the more likely it is that she will turn it around onto you (“you are constantly harrassing me”, or “I do not like feeling attacked in my own relationship”) and start pulling away from you emotionally. Basically, the fact that she is so evasive means that chasing this has a decent chance of breaking the relationship.
Or a little kick or elbow under the table.
You mean that you’ve thought about the consequences of cheating/ break up with your BF and you decided that it wouldn’t be beneficial to you.
Try again later I suppose lmao.
No he can't and this post is most likely just to vent but he isn't looking for advice. Just using it to rant. He will forgive her again and she's gonna sleep around again.
Might even get pregnant by her affair partner this time and OP is gonna have a baby.. he's gonna think is his.
There is no reason that if u were so remorseful and sorry that you would deceive ur bf and hide some dudes name in ur phone tht u fucked around outside of ur relationship and say it's just chatting..
Wtf do they have to chat about?
OP is a doormat and will continue to be one until he gets his head out of this chicks ass.
Point blank period.
I mean it's up to you, if you don't feel like it, he shouldn't force you in any way, or make you feel bad for bailing, and you should communicate that to him (“There are times when I don't feel like doing this for you, don't make me feel bad for it if”) or something like that.
The other thing is make sure he's actually giving you as much as you are giving him. Does he go down on you as often? Does he give you pleasure as often? Even if you have a lower drive, there are surely things he could do outside of sex that could make you happy – is he doing those? As long as both of you are happy it's fine, but it doesn't seem like you are fully happy so fight for yourself and fix this situation.