The advice is the same thing you should have done from the start: Leave. Get away from your husband whether it's to get with your AP or just strike out on your own. The longer you stay the further you become just as toxic as he is. Just leave. There's no better time like the present.
Depends on the clothing. In principle, I'd like to assume you have a decent head on your shoulders and chose decent clothing. You're 19 so it's safe to assume you're still dressing for attention from others.
Do you draw unwanted attention in public? Are you going to get your boyfriend in a fight because you're dressing in a way that draws copious attention from men?
You can still dress attractively without looking like you're a gift to unwrap.
Take your feeling out of this and cast your eyes in to the far future with his perspective what would he be like as a husband what would he be like as a father to daughters love is not everything and it's actually NOT the most important thing you are 20 and very much still in your “prime” for dating let this one go on the principal of incomparable preference and boundaries
The advice is the same thing you should have done from the start: Leave. Get away from your husband whether it's to get with your AP or just strike out on your own. The longer you stay the further you become just as toxic as he is. Just leave. There's no better time like the present.
Depends on the clothing. In principle, I'd like to assume you have a decent head on your shoulders and chose decent clothing. You're 19 so it's safe to assume you're still dressing for attention from others.
Do you draw unwanted attention in public? Are you going to get your boyfriend in a fight because you're dressing in a way that draws copious attention from men?
You can still dress attractively without looking like you're a gift to unwrap.
Take your feeling out of this and cast your eyes in to the far future with his perspective what would he be like as a husband what would he be like as a father to daughters love is not everything and it's actually NOT the most important thing you are 20 and very much still in your “prime” for dating let this one go on the principal of incomparable preference and boundaries