Honestly I have depression along with other fun things. When shit starts to go down I can and will shut down. And unfortunately if someone doesn't contact me I don't usually contact them. I feel like myself and my emotions/problems are burden to them. The longer it goes the worse I feel. If I were you I'd reach out. Let him know you were thinking of him and his dog. Tell him he doesn't have to reply but knowing he's alive would be nice. Then tell him you love him.
I’m confused. I don’t really see the problem. You started dating her knowing she does this? But now you want to control and change this about her?
Listen, as long as she doesn’t cheat on you live or offline, I think you should chill. People are going to look at her no matter what, who cares? It’s her body, not yours so it’s irrelevant if you dislike others looking at her. She’s the one who gets to decide what she’s comfortable with regarding her own body.
I’m a woman and I cannot explain how tired I am of men doing this. Exes all sharing their unsolicited opinion on what I should do or how I should dress to avoid attention from men (because they don’t like it). Small spoiler, covering up doesn’t prevent men from pestering you, and it won’t solve your “problem”. You seem to think that because you’re dating you should be the only one seeing her? Will you go to the beach with her and tell her to cover up? Idk man, you’re causing yourself a lot of stress.
If you think I’m overreacting, look at OP. She is “Furious” and “so upset”. All I did was state, based on 20 years of marriage experience, that things like this will happen often, especially if they decide to have children and both work down the line. A marriage is one big juggling act manage time and events.
I think you and those downvoting have zero perspective on reality and in for a rude awakening.
Oh, Jesus.
Honestly I have depression along with other fun things. When shit starts to go down I can and will shut down. And unfortunately if someone doesn't contact me I don't usually contact them. I feel like myself and my emotions/problems are burden to them. The longer it goes the worse I feel. If I were you I'd reach out. Let him know you were thinking of him and his dog. Tell him he doesn't have to reply but knowing he's alive would be nice. Then tell him you love him.
I’m confused. I don’t really see the problem. You started dating her knowing she does this? But now you want to control and change this about her?
Listen, as long as she doesn’t cheat on you live or offline, I think you should chill. People are going to look at her no matter what, who cares? It’s her body, not yours so it’s irrelevant if you dislike others looking at her. She’s the one who gets to decide what she’s comfortable with regarding her own body.
I’m a woman and I cannot explain how tired I am of men doing this. Exes all sharing their unsolicited opinion on what I should do or how I should dress to avoid attention from men (because they don’t like it). Small spoiler, covering up doesn’t prevent men from pestering you, and it won’t solve your “problem”. You seem to think that because you’re dating you should be the only one seeing her? Will you go to the beach with her and tell her to cover up? Idk man, you’re causing yourself a lot of stress.
Are you saying that the only chore he helps with is splitting laundry with you?
Very possibly already sleeping with other people and wants OP’s permission to clear her conscience. Time to move on – she has.
Not really, no. I’m being 100% honest here.
If you think I’m overreacting, look at OP. She is “Furious” and “so upset”. All I did was state, based on 20 years of marriage experience, that things like this will happen often, especially if they decide to have children and both work down the line. A marriage is one big juggling act manage time and events.
I think you and those downvoting have zero perspective on reality and in for a rude awakening.
He was 26 when you were 17? Absolutely leave. He's a creep.
There's no “shouldnts” and what I want is irrelevant.