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I’m afraid i loose him knowing it is my fault and not his , cause i broke up with him a day ago , i know part of it is my fault and insecurities but i want to know if he is the one responsible for all of this , cause i was never like this with any of my ex boyfriends
I think she is the one who should be taking her meds, you should NEVER be forced into it, moreover when you dont feel like its affecting your life. Of course if it had gotten to a point where you feel like it is an issue you MUST get solved (you, YOURSELF) then it is absolutely okay to try to get you to see a doctor but you already did.
It is also not guaranteed that you will have to take pills, what is she going to do if you dont have to take them? Shout at you? I would absolutely break this up, she sounds toxic af and I dont think that is justifiable under the “I have bpd this is a symptom!!”
I'm so sorry Op. I'm really sorry. Your grandma gave you a gift during her transitional stage, she inadvertently told you, sweetie, he's not who I dreamed for you. Heed her lesson “he, your STBX has zero empathy.”
Okay, then I understand that being settled. But I’m still truly confused why they would think he was best suited to babysit their baby. Does your husband have some sort of specific childcare skills?
You need to stay out of this. You've been with this guy for less than a year. You don't know enough about him to be doing all this white knighting. She's not responding to you because she's not talking to you. Find your lane. Boyfriend needs to establish paternity. That's all, that's it. Until he does that, he's not bothered by her shenanigans enough. This whole situation is as simple as him going there to establish paternity, sign away his rights, and move on. If he's not doing that then there's no conversation to keep having.
You have to actively accept people's choices now or they see you as an enemy. We have painted ourselves into this corner with the ridiculous amount of “acceptance” we demand.
I’m afraid i loose him knowing it is my fault and not his , cause i broke up with him a day ago , i know part of it is my fault and insecurities but i want to know if he is the one responsible for all of this , cause i was never like this with any of my ex boyfriends
I think she is the one who should be taking her meds, you should NEVER be forced into it, moreover when you dont feel like its affecting your life. Of course if it had gotten to a point where you feel like it is an issue you MUST get solved (you, YOURSELF) then it is absolutely okay to try to get you to see a doctor but you already did.
It is also not guaranteed that you will have to take pills, what is she going to do if you dont have to take them? Shout at you? I would absolutely break this up, she sounds toxic af and I dont think that is justifiable under the “I have bpd this is a symptom!!”
Well, now you know how he is able to string along the poor woman.
Woman- So, what do you think about wedding?
OP- all good for me. Hahaha jk.
I'm so sorry Op. I'm really sorry. Your grandma gave you a gift during her transitional stage, she inadvertently told you, sweetie, he's not who I dreamed for you. Heed her lesson “he, your STBX has zero empathy.”
Let her transition mark your new beginning.
13 years old openly talking about penises in front of strangers and family. This family is fked up, I would run.
Okay, then I understand that being settled. But I’m still truly confused why they would think he was best suited to babysit their baby. Does your husband have some sort of specific childcare skills?
It seems likely that he’s lying to you.
You should all be using clothes. It's weird. Do you think it'd be cool for the 14 year old to be walking around in her underwear all day?
Eh, he is, he just doesn't use his brain enough lmao.
You need to stay out of this. You've been with this guy for less than a year. You don't know enough about him to be doing all this white knighting. She's not responding to you because she's not talking to you. Find your lane. Boyfriend needs to establish paternity. That's all, that's it. Until he does that, he's not bothered by her shenanigans enough. This whole situation is as simple as him going there to establish paternity, sign away his rights, and move on. If he's not doing that then there's no conversation to keep having.
You have to actively accept people's choices now or they see you as an enemy. We have painted ourselves into this corner with the ridiculous amount of “acceptance” we demand.
Leave.