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You aren't being an asshole? Your husband *poops with the door open when you're eating* and can't seem to stop doing that even though you've reasonable requested. That would dry me right up even without the bi thing. Is marital therapy a possibility for you? He has to understand and *care* that he's being gross and it's wildly affecting you quite aside from you thinking you're bi. You say all is copacetic in your marriage, but this is a glaring flaw that it seems must be dealt with decisively. It'll be much easier to come out if your relationship is strong sexually & emotionally, and much less likely (depending on him) to be read as “I want to leave you” that when you already have a foot out the door sexually? Good luck
He deleted instagram after that night so the reels spam won't happen again, which makes me believe maybe he did this to take some distance from me? Maybe he's getting scared of liking me? Which would also explain the deleted message, but maybe I'm just overthinking
seconding this! some stores have display toys you can test on the palm of your hands to check if its light or strong enough for you. store clerk shows you the different functions and models, answers every/any question you may have and there is no taboo. it's neat going and browsing the options! from the sounds of it she'd enjoy that kind of outing
Thanks for the clarification. Sorry if it's confusing. I don't LOVE giving head, but I don't mind it and do it because it makes my boyfriend happy. However, he is totally turned off and hates going down on me. I feel so awkward that he's done it before and also betrayed because I had no idea. For example, he knows I don't do anal and never initiates it. I never lied and said I am indifferent and immediately set the boundary that i don't like it.
Are you that dense ??? That’s almost worse. you guys are WEIRD
Tell Nick, this sounds like a set up.
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You aren't being an asshole? Your husband *poops with the door open when you're eating* and can't seem to stop doing that even though you've reasonable requested. That would dry me right up even without the bi thing. Is marital therapy a possibility for you? He has to understand and *care* that he's being gross and it's wildly affecting you quite aside from you thinking you're bi. You say all is copacetic in your marriage, but this is a glaring flaw that it seems must be dealt with decisively. It'll be much easier to come out if your relationship is strong sexually & emotionally, and much less likely (depending on him) to be read as “I want to leave you” that when you already have a foot out the door sexually? Good luck
Those two sentences contradict each other… please get help.
Are you kidding me, you're arguing over condiments?
That's a pretty good indicator that you two are not good for one another.
He deleted instagram after that night so the reels spam won't happen again, which makes me believe maybe he did this to take some distance from me? Maybe he's getting scared of liking me? Which would also explain the deleted message, but maybe I'm just overthinking
seconding this! some stores have display toys you can test on the palm of your hands to check if its light or strong enough for you. store clerk shows you the different functions and models, answers every/any question you may have and there is no taboo. it's neat going and browsing the options! from the sounds of it she'd enjoy that kind of outing
Thanks for the clarification. Sorry if it's confusing. I don't LOVE giving head, but I don't mind it and do it because it makes my boyfriend happy. However, he is totally turned off and hates going down on me. I feel so awkward that he's done it before and also betrayed because I had no idea. For example, he knows I don't do anal and never initiates it. I never lied and said I am indifferent and immediately set the boundary that i don't like it.