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Ok now you are making sense. It would be ideal if you would add this to the original post becausw otherwise this would completely read as s you problrm and not his.
Did you try communicating this problem to him? Whst happened if you did? Is he knowledgeable on EDs and mental health?
I just read her comments. She was aware the were not boyfriend/ Girlfriend and allowed it to remain ambiguous even though that isn't what she wanted. You can not expect exclusivity, unless monogamy has been discussed you aren't exclusive. Because there are a lot of people with a lot of different ideas assumptions lead to heartbreak
I don't really understand the situation here….
If you two are broken up why do you feel guilty? He left you because he said he wasn't ready for a relationship by your own admission something that apparently he keeps bringing up and random conversation… Which means you were single and you decided to go out and have some fun.
He has no right to be jealous, he dumped you.
You don't have any reason to feel guilt, You were single.
Why are you complicating something so much more than it needs to be complicated?
And why are you with someone who is still to this day constantly bringing up and random conversation how they're not ready for a relationship after being in one for two fucking years?
My money is boyfriend also got some while you two were broken up.
My money is that he finds you comfortable, someone he can fall back on because you've been together for a couple of years, it's easy, it's known, it's comfortable, but he still isn't ready to commit.
If he's constantly bringing up how he's not ready for a relationship take that as the red flag it is, He's just going to dump you again, have some fun, and then come crawling back when it's not fun anymore and he needs comfort.
He old enough to be your dad and started dating you when you were 18. That’s two giant ?right there
I agree in a way but I don’t think abandoning them is right for me, I tried it. It didn’t work because I just felt a mountain of guilt. Like it was spiritually wrong of me. It’s very difficult but also I feel like I’m gaining wisdom, I see all the wrong, I see exactly where it stems from, I examine those areas within myself and make sure nothing “grows” there if get that I mean. It’s like a strange kind of x mode therapy in itself. That’s the way I think of it anyway. I’ll gain more space soon of course but I don’t want to exile him from my life, he literally has no one else because he’s so prickly. I don’t know… I probably need more therapy. ?
Going after each other's bodily autonomy is pushing so far away from the real issues. Never bring up her getting her tunes tied again because you'll just be digging for a fight instead of reaching the real point. If she knows about vasectomy, she's not dense enough to figure out about her own tubes. What you need to talk about is why she thinks this is ok to ask you not only this early on but also if this is a deal breaker for you.
If you work out, do you even want more kids? If so, she clearly telling you that is not a future for her. I think its perfectly reasonable you don't want to get a vasectomy. Instead of constantly telling her it's because your reconciliation is not a guarantee so you'd like to keep your options open, go with the route of saying your not comfortable with under going a surgery for anyone but yourself/ for a relationship. If you love her, tell her so, but tell her that you would never realistically ask her to do that for you, so you'd like her to also not ask that of you. And of course say that last time you were just acting out of passion of being hurt by her question. Definitely don't down play how you saw her insisting as ignoring your right to do what you feel comfortable with your own body.
My personal opinion is no one, but you, should have the right to decide what you do over your own body.
No second thoughts on my end but we did have a pregnancy scare that put things into perspective for him.