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Do you wanna play? come and make me happy ridding the dildo [250 tokens remaining]
Date: October 15, 2022
Do you wanna play? come and make me happy ridding the dildo [250 tokens remaining]
What is there to explain? He was hurt, drink, probably feeling lonely, knowing you were splitting, so looked for comfort in a one night stand.
Like you really can't sympathize with that? Sex makes you feel better sometimes, and he was hurting. It's as simple as that. Doesn't mean he loves you less or anything, or that he loves that other girl or something. It was just for his own comfort. Everyone soothes their pain differently.
This, she won't notice if you mirror her or will say you exaggerate or put things out of context. You need to have a conversation and her reaction will tell you if it is worth continuing or not. I think one of the reasons she stayed with you was that she wanted to take care of you, she might just have trouble putting her intentions into actions.
But, you can't walk on eggshells all the time, it is exhausting and you will resent her for that, you need to express your feelings.
I think this might be the right answer, although a book called The Sewing Bible for clothing alterations by Judith Turner is a good resource if you ever do wanna get into this. But the learning curve is real, and before you can alter clothing you basically have to know a ton about how clothing is made. I doubt that's your background if you're graduating from hobby sewing by hand to your first machine.
But don't listen to anyone who says give the machine back!
She already apologized for that and I forgave her and she admitted she wouldn’t be okay without me which is why I continued to support her
Thanks for the advice!
I already introduced her to my family. They love her and she loves them. I often go out with my sister to eat sushi or to play D&D with her and his best friend, and my girlfriend isn't bothered by that. she seems ok to everything involving my family or the friends of my sister.
Regarding my old friends, I don't know if I can do anything right away. They see me as “the one who choose a girl instead of his friends”. Maybe if I apologize everything will be ok, but I don't think it's the smartest thing to do if I'm still in this relationship
This can't be fixed because she doesn't want to fix it. Give us one single reason to believe she cares about making you happy in this relationship. There are none, and she won't do it!
Bob sounds like he’s got some big honkin’ bitch tits. Just let the wedding pan out from here and don’t pay it no mind.
Draw a very hot line.
I don’t care what you personally consider to be gaslighting if your working definition of the term is inaccurate, which it is
I'd get another place lined up for yourself and talk to your landlord in private about getting your name off the lease. Once you've another place secured, then break up
Has your girlfriend made positive changes herself? Maybe she feels a bit insecure and is drawing back because she may not feel confident about your fidelity despite what you say or do. Unfortunately, that's an issue that has to be fixed by her. Maybe talk to her and see what she thinks. I know that's dumb advice, but you'd be surprised at the results if she is self-reflective and wants the relationship to work.
I probably should just leave it. I tend to laugh about random things and sometimes do that with him, he probably thinks I'm weird ? that's another thing that makes me think he might wana avoid me haha