I guess I'm old, but this sounds icky every which way to Sunday to me. Dump this guy who is trying to “even out the scales.” That's not how relationships are supposed to work.
Unfortunately, based on your previous post about her and your comments, you're not going anywhere. So, be prepared for a roller coaster of toxicity until you get sick of it. Everyone needs to learn these things on their own. No real helpful advice to give because the only acceptable thing is to end it and that's clearly not going to happen. Good luck.
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She’s keeping you on the hook. There’s a great How I Met Your Mother episode about this! Cut her loose and move on.
He is not unemployed. He is very successful and I when I meant new job, I mean he currently has one and wants one closer in distance
I guess I'm old, but this sounds icky every which way to Sunday to me. Dump this guy who is trying to “even out the scales.” That's not how relationships are supposed to work.
Unfortunately, based on your previous post about her and your comments, you're not going anywhere. So, be prepared for a roller coaster of toxicity until you get sick of it. Everyone needs to learn these things on their own. No real helpful advice to give because the only acceptable thing is to end it and that's clearly not going to happen. Good luck.