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Yay! I'm so glad you told her! Sara seems like a great person who loves you deeply. She was so understanding. I'm very excited that you both are staying together and working through this together. As for Lauren… If she wants to pretend that nothing happened, fine. You guys tried to talk it out. You did good!!!! ❤️
That's more like retire early if you invest well, use part for downpayment money, emergency fund, go on occasional international holiday type money. That's not “I don't have to ever work in my life” money.
You shouldn't say anything. I have friends who have a lot more money when they were in their mid-20s because they worked in finance and they weren't telling people they had money.
OP seems worried about money so I don’t think splurging is necessarily going to make her feel better. Your solution also implies that her husband is going to step up and allow her to leave her kids for her own vacation. He’s not sounding like the most responsible or with it person so not sure how feasible it is.
I was the same way. I wanted a boy so bad that I was a little heartbroken when we found out it was a girl. My wife was afraid I wouldn't love her like a proper dad should because I was disappointed in having a girl.
When she was born(there was a lot of trauma during the birth) and the doctor handed her to the nurse to get a thorough check out and get her cleaned up. Then they finally said after what seemed like an eternity ( probably 5 minutes) to come over and meet her. When I looked down at our beautiful baby and reached down to touch her, she grabbed my finger and held on tight. My heart just completely melted and I started low key crying that I was a dad to this beautiful girl. She became my best pal and we did everything together. She now lives across the country but flies home for us to go to football games or whatever.
After her birth, it changed my whole outlook on having kids. While I did want to have a boy, we ended up with 3 girls and I wouldn't trade them for anything. Some guys will have a preconceived notion about what they want out of parenthood, but that is all erased when the kids show up and steal your heart.
Yeah it's pretty tame to flash the balcony at night, if that's the wildest thing she did thats, meh, pretty reserved. I would give her a pass in that regard I thought she flashed other people from the title.
What's more concerning is the friend group keeps doing this shit that we play at 21, maybe until 25. Sounds too immature for a 28-29 y/o group of people, if she's into that at that age I would question it a bit.
It seems you’re doing a lot of sacrifices on your end so she won’t lose her parents, I’m sorry but y’all need to stop tiptoeing around her parents and just online y’all life
Going back 10 years on his profile just to find if he has a partner when hes clearly not comfortable disclosing that with you is creepy. Leave him alone.
Honestly her age is the only factor that is keeping me from thinking she was being manipulative, it might’ve been just an immature and horrendous sense of humor
Age gaps aren’t inherently a terrible thing, but in my opinion only in very specific scenarios is it okay.
I say this as someone who was 19 and my husband was 25 when we got together. This is a grey area imo, as
1- we were at similar times of our life in that we were both studying still, he took a long time off due to illness and then working to support his parents,
2- I knew he didn’t have a history of dating younger women, all his previous partners were around his age. We became friends first through mutual work friends and it grew to become a relationship. (I was over 18 the entire time we were friends)
2- he was aware of the power imbalance that can come in age gap relationships and left every decision up to me in terms of how fast we moved and made sure never used this power to sway me to do things I didn’t want to do.
3- he was accepting that whilst he was over his clubbing / drinking / partying stage I wasn’t, and was understanding and trusted me that I still wanted to go out with my friends and enjoy my youth (without being with other people of course)
We are now married and have been together 14 years, still going as strong as ever and I can’t wait to share the rest of my life with my best friend. Making the decision to give him a chance is the absolute best decision I’ve ever made and I hate to think that I may have missed out on such happiness and love because I was afraid of what others may think.
He got a tiny bit of jokey criticism in the beginning but trust me the older you both get the less anyone will care, but at the end of the day, do what makes you both happy because it’s your lives.
Yay! I'm so glad you told her! Sara seems like a great person who loves you deeply. She was so understanding. I'm very excited that you both are staying together and working through this together. As for Lauren… If she wants to pretend that nothing happened, fine. You guys tried to talk it out. You did good!!!! ❤️
That's more like retire early if you invest well, use part for downpayment money, emergency fund, go on occasional international holiday type money. That's not “I don't have to ever work in my life” money.
You shouldn't say anything. I have friends who have a lot more money when they were in their mid-20s because they worked in finance and they weren't telling people they had money.
OP seems worried about money so I don’t think splurging is necessarily going to make her feel better. Your solution also implies that her husband is going to step up and allow her to leave her kids for her own vacation. He’s not sounding like the most responsible or with it person so not sure how feasible it is.
I was the same way. I wanted a boy so bad that I was a little heartbroken when we found out it was a girl. My wife was afraid I wouldn't love her like a proper dad should because I was disappointed in having a girl.
When she was born(there was a lot of trauma during the birth) and the doctor handed her to the nurse to get a thorough check out and get her cleaned up. Then they finally said after what seemed like an eternity ( probably 5 minutes) to come over and meet her. When I looked down at our beautiful baby and reached down to touch her, she grabbed my finger and held on tight. My heart just completely melted and I started low key crying that I was a dad to this beautiful girl. She became my best pal and we did everything together. She now lives across the country but flies home for us to go to football games or whatever.
After her birth, it changed my whole outlook on having kids. While I did want to have a boy, we ended up with 3 girls and I wouldn't trade them for anything. Some guys will have a preconceived notion about what they want out of parenthood, but that is all erased when the kids show up and steal your heart.
Yeah it's pretty tame to flash the balcony at night, if that's the wildest thing she did thats, meh, pretty reserved. I would give her a pass in that regard I thought she flashed other people from the title.
What's more concerning is the friend group keeps doing this shit that we play at 21, maybe until 25. Sounds too immature for a 28-29 y/o group of people, if she's into that at that age I would question it a bit.
Damn right.
Sorry you had to go through a shitty time. But i think that's the best attitude you could have taken away from it.
It seems you’re doing a lot of sacrifices on your end so she won’t lose her parents, I’m sorry but y’all need to stop tiptoeing around her parents and just online y’all life
Going back 10 years on his profile just to find if he has a partner when hes clearly not comfortable disclosing that with you is creepy. Leave him alone.
Brilliant ???
Honestly her age is the only factor that is keeping me from thinking she was being manipulative, it might’ve been just an immature and horrendous sense of humor
Age gaps aren’t inherently a terrible thing, but in my opinion only in very specific scenarios is it okay.
I say this as someone who was 19 and my husband was 25 when we got together. This is a grey area imo, as
1- we were at similar times of our life in that we were both studying still, he took a long time off due to illness and then working to support his parents,
2- I knew he didn’t have a history of dating younger women, all his previous partners were around his age. We became friends first through mutual work friends and it grew to become a relationship. (I was over 18 the entire time we were friends)
2- he was aware of the power imbalance that can come in age gap relationships and left every decision up to me in terms of how fast we moved and made sure never used this power to sway me to do things I didn’t want to do.
3- he was accepting that whilst he was over his clubbing / drinking / partying stage I wasn’t, and was understanding and trusted me that I still wanted to go out with my friends and enjoy my youth (without being with other people of course)
We are now married and have been together 14 years, still going as strong as ever and I can’t wait to share the rest of my life with my best friend. Making the decision to give him a chance is the absolute best decision I’ve ever made and I hate to think that I may have missed out on such happiness and love because I was afraid of what others may think.
He got a tiny bit of jokey criticism in the beginning but trust me the older you both get the less anyone will care, but at the end of the day, do what makes you both happy because it’s your lives.