Here's my advice: don't ask questions you don't want the answer to and I mean that. You might want to have the knowledge because you're thinking about it but you have to ask yourself if it will help you or harm you before you do. It sounds like you have your lesson learned, don't ask questions if you can't handle the answer
That's a boundary for me. I wouldn't date anyone who had an ex still in their friend or social circles. Some people are fine with it, I'm not one of them. I would just say thanks, but no thanks, and move on.
Here's my advice: don't ask questions you don't want the answer to and I mean that. You might want to have the knowledge because you're thinking about it but you have to ask yourself if it will help you or harm you before you do. It sounds like you have your lesson learned, don't ask questions if you can't handle the answer
That's a boundary for me. I wouldn't date anyone who had an ex still in their friend or social circles. Some people are fine with it, I'm not one of them. I would just say thanks, but no thanks, and move on.