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Date: October 10, 2022
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Its almost like i never happened and wasted two years of my life.
Yeah that's how it goes when you date married people.
It’s okay OP. You have food and shelter right ? Just take your time and let yourself process your thoughts. Don’t get caught up in anything that causes more anxiety like alcohol. ?
Thank you!! I’ve talked to my roommate and she agrees, he’s definitely not worth the trouble. He does tend to be obsessed about social media, always posting stuff about medicine, what he’s doing or just pictures of him. Also, he has no friends, only colleagues, so there’s another red flag! Specially since we live in a college town, it’s pretty common for people to go out and have a beer at a bar with a friend or two.
And your boyfriend seems to be really nice, and he cares about dogs too, so that’s really good plus. I don’t need to find someone obsessed with dogs, but the bare minimum of caring about pets would be a requisite. Also, it says a lot about a person, if they don’t like them, right?
Anyways, will probably end up dropping him, and I bet he’s gonna be persistent about staying together, since my roommate (the one he kissed once) told him she doesn’t want anything to do with him, he came to our house after she told him to drop it and not to come. Hey! Another red flag lol. But good thing I’m very stubborn about my decisions, and I’m not afraid of standing up for myself when I need to.
I’ll be pursuing a masters in Italy next year, so I’ll probably not even remember this small hiccup in my dating life hahahah
Thank you so much for your help, it’s always amazing to get opinions from nice people! Have a nice day 🙂
I feel like I was honey potted. Oof, that's some questionable wording there my dude. I get that you're struggling with what's happening, but I seriously doubt she intentionally tricked you. I can't imagine what she would've gained from that. Time to put that nonsense aside and address this like a rational adult.
If you haven't talked to her about it, you should have that talk in the calmest way you can without being accusatory. Be curious about why this is going the way it's going. Share what you miss and ask how she's feeling and what's going on in her head that makes her less affectionate and more standoffish. Maybe she's struggling with something she's not sharing that you can help with. Or maybe it's time to establish some more structured boundaries and schedules so that it's easier for you both to live! together. And if you're really that miserable, maybe you two should go back to living separately. But you won't know if this could be better until you two talk about it.
It's important to remember that this is a very big change for both of you and it may take time and effort to get to a point where it's happy. And it may never get there – this may not work. It's one thing to see each other for a few hours then go home to your own spaces and an entirely different thing to have to spend every moment at home with the other person. She might need more time alone or might need to be encouraged to keep her own separate life or who knows.
Best of luck.
After what I just read you need to get rid of him, what kind of partner throws that kind of trash in your face? You are lucky you texted him because he was ready to cheat? Seriously? And the fact that he is a grown man doing this to makes it even worse. Please, do yourself a favor and do not marry this man. In fact, please don’t date him. He sounds like a manipulative a**hole. Run, and keep running. If anything he is lucky to have a gf that would put up with his bad, because a lot of us 30 year old women would not.
Also, good point about my idealistic view on starting a family. I always envisioned myself being a young father and it really is affecting my current life choices and had been affecting my dating life too. Not good, shouldn’t stress on it that much I guess. Quarter-life crisis, eh? But this is for another post at another time in some another subreddit haha
new harry potter game came out, cant blame him tbh
Maybe leggings would help? They're tight to the skin so nothing can get to her skin and they'd probably be more comfy while hopefully serving the same purpose!
Why has she not ended it with her boyfriend then? You’ve both already crossed a line by having late night movie nights and midnight phone calls, whilst her boyfriend is at home and getting treated like shit. Would you really want to be with someone so untrustworthy?
Adding to this – figure out if there is a better way to communicate with your gf which doesn't trigger an emotional reaction. Some people respond well to letters, for example.
Twice a week ?? I couldn’t, I’d feel disgusting
Yeah sorry I didn’t mention it. But it also seems like even if we were compatible, she wants to experience other people still which really hurts. In the end when we were breaking up she just kept saying that I was perfect but she was the problem and idk what to make of it.
Imo it really could be from the past… If it was it's NOTHING to do with you, we all have pasts.
Either way you trust her or you don't. If you don't leave.