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ANNY , BRANDY , NOAH AND TONNY, 19 y.o.
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Date: October 12, 2022
ANNY , BRANDY , NOAH AND TONNY, 19 y.o.
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As a Muslim (technically, I’ve been atheist since age 6), I’ve seen muslims of all sorts (conservatives, progressives, open-minded, extremist) but converts are usually the most twisted of em. No disrespect, but except for the african american converts to Islam, other western converts have usually been more extreme with their “faith”.
Also, as a women who has experience independence and liberty in western society, becoming a Muslim in a marriage will put you in extremely restrictive positions relative to your partner that you probably haven’t experienced nor want to experience.
If you haven’t grown up in that type of culture, comfortability in it as a woman is pretty much impossible.
The stuff you’re boyfriend doesn’t like about you are personality traits. They aren’t things you can (or should) fix or change. It’s not worth trying to change yourself to appease him. I would break up with him.
Look if you dislike something in a relationship enough to make a Reddit post it is enough to have a talk about it with your gf. You can tell her that it makes you feel u confortable and tell her what you want. You can tell her to stop seeing him, you can tell her to take off the video, whatever.
If you don't want her to hang out with guys that kissed her before or her exes or guys that might want more, you can make that a boundary. If you don't like her hanging out with guys alone at all, you can also make that a boundary. However boundaries are not a way to manipulate someone or enforce a certain behavior, they are a line that if its crossed, you will walk away from the relationship and you need to be prepared to walk away whenever you put down a boundary.
Also if you don't like any behavior from your partner, it is not “insecure”, its often just you not liking that behavior and if you have a relationship and you learn that you dislike something a lot and feel bad whenever it happens, you can make that a boundary for your next one.
Always worth sharing The Narcissist's Prayer for those who might not have seen it.
That didn’t happen. And if it did, it wasn’t that bad. And if it was, that’s not a big deal. And if it is, that’s not my fault. And if it was, I didn’t mean it. And if I did, you deserved it.
And it won’t be the last time he hits you Op.
Seriously, do not rationalize his behavior.
I say this as a survivor of an abusive relationship.
I rationalized EVERYTHING! I’m telling you, you have blinders on and will try to gaslit yourself out of leaving him if you don’t now.
He may not be a pedophile but he’s old enough to be your dad and that’s gross. Why isn’t a 43 year old man dating someone his own age? Don’t say it’s cuz you’re so mature beyond your years. Trust me, you’re not. You’re easily manipulated and controlled and clearly very naive about the world, which is why this way too old for you dude wants you.
damn, yeah, it's a total fuckin' mystery
he definitely does bring me joy :), he is the sweetest most loving guy i have ever met and i have never been treated better. our sex life is great aside from that, so i’m happy that it’s not weird of me to not breakup with him over this tiny thing. i feel like my friends jumping to breaking up is an overreaction and might be bc they are a little more immature than me.
Just leaving this here, OP has already contacted a lawyer.