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Date: October 4, 2022
Nah, she should have acknowledged and apologized as he wanted, bc it is her fuck up.
But also it's not 'hiding' anything to end up on a trip with someone you once slept with and…just not think anything of it. It'd be different if it was an ex boyfriend or something, or if she was just going on a trip with the guy. Sounds like the situation was incidental.
PLEASE do what the above comments suggest – force her to be your stepmom, take you to the nail salon/shopping/whatever, treat her like a decrepit old woman who’s embarrassing as hell and out of touch while also constantly reminding her that she’s literally your age, just make it as ridiculously uncomfortable as possible without going overboard. And make sure to gush to dad about how great y’all are getting along. It’ll be great.
Exactly. It’s not really about the ‘difference in dating/sexual experience’, it’s about how someone perceives those differences.
Also it’s doubly upsetting for me because my fiancé has no league knowledge, never saw a trailer, and was totally down to binge the entire arcana show in a weekend with me despite a new ep of her show coming out that same weekend. She didn’t know it she’d like it or not, but I was excited about it so she was excited about it. She ended up loving it and is more excited for the second season than I am. Even if she hated it, I’m confident she would have still loved spending that time with me. So if you compare that to your gfs reaction, it’s like she doesn’t even want to spend time with you. Considering she’s totally okay with you watching all her shows despite not being interested, she’s probably a narcissist. I’m sorry 🙁
Move in silence. Get a lawyer and a damn good one, gather everything you have of him admitting to it. Then sick that lawyer on them both. Let them do the actions of revenge. Take it all.
Lol, no. Gurl, bye.
There's a lot here, but off the bat, I'm sorry you're dealing with it. What you first need to realize is that they don't actually not like you, in the sense of who you are as a person and whether or not you're a good partner to their grandson.
They have an archaic and outdated mindset. Fair enough. While people might say that they're just wrong (which they are), the hot truth is that they're not going to change how they feel. As such, they're projecting their feelings on what they deem to be appropriate onto how they view you as a person. It's completely unfair to you. The thing is though, that your boyfriend is a party to this situation. He chose to online with you. They seemingly like him though. Wouldn't that logically make no sense and be hypocritical?
I'd have to assume that they just ignorantly view him as some “innocent boy” and you're a bad influence on him that's beyond his control. It's sad but laughable. But here's what needs to be focused on; your boyfriend's response to the situation. I fully get that he's in an uncomfortable situation and doesn't want to create a divide with family.
But let's look big picture. You're not a new person he's dating or new girlfriend; you've been dating for two years. I'll just assume that you've discussed a future together and that that's what he wants. If so, how does he expect for this to work if things remain as they are? Does he need their approval? If so, then you're already delaying the inevitable and it's not fair to you. If he doesn't, then he needs to speak up on your behalf and subsequently take action on your behalf if their decisions remain the same (e.g. if they say you're not welcome in their home, he's just going to keep going there without you and ask you to just deal with it?), he needs to stop going.
As for now, would I say you're “rude” for declining invitations? No. We can all logically understand why you're doing it. You're being disrespected and you shouldn't accept it. However, always making excuses not to go and avoiding the family just isn't sustainable or an answer if this relationship is going to continue. You should be honest about how you feel with your boyfriend and go from there. Good luck.
My question is why are you doing these things to her? This sounds straight up abusive. Women stay in abusive relationships because they are so worn down and have lost their confidence due to the emotional abuse. I’ve been in abusive relationships and it fucks you up long term and it is naked to leave at times due to you feeling so bad about yourself and thinking you can fix the situation.
For expectations, my partner should see me as an equal and treat me as such. Treat me with respect, dignity, love, and kindness at all times. Never put me down, cheat, lie, body shame, none of that.
Please see a therapist for these issues so you can start treating your girl right. A person can only take so much.
ETA: you don’t deserve those good things from a relationship tbh. She’s traumatized and trying to get you to stop putting her down, so she does nice things for you.
My question is why are you doing these things to her? This sounds straight up abusive. Women stay in abusive relationships because they are so worn down and have lost their confidence due to the emotional abuse. I’ve been in abusive relationships and it fucks you up long term and it is hot to leave at times due to you feeling so bad about yourself and thinking you can fix the situation.
For expectations, my partner should see me as an equal and treat me as such. Treat me with respect, dignity, love, and kindness at all times. Never put me down, cheat, lie, body shame, none of that.
Please see a therapist for these issues so you can start treating your girl right. A person can only take so much.
ETA: you don’t deserve those good things from a relationship tbh. She’s traumatized and trying to get you to stop putting her down, so she does nice things for you.
Dam that sounds frustrating, definitely an obsession and bordering on unhealthy at that, you say you've indulged them for years? And it hasn't helped ease any of it? This is very deep-seated stuff then.
Nothing wrong a with a kink or two but relationships are about give and take; it's not healthy for it to go too far one way or the other.
Calmly reassert your boundaries I say, it's not unreasonable to not want to be bombarded by anything.
How much does he weigh? You can lose that much weight _so fast_—and help him move on at the same time!
Dump him.
Bodies change over a lifetime. If he can’t handle it now, he won’t handle it better in the future.
been trying to find a therapist I’m comfortable with. I didn’t have horrible self esteem before dating him. but I guess that’s what happens when you make yourself small for somebody
i guess the way i saw it was, if we broke up then it’s not cheating right ? if we were still together then maybe.
Of course it is cheating dude
You are going to burn this down around yourself while this guy politely watches.
Right now we just have the rule that they never meet up at their apartments
forbid her a friendship
I dont trust her fully
naturally I couldnt talk about the topics I really want to with since my gf was also there
This isn't stacking up like a relationship you can maintain. You can't talk about your girlfriend because she's there? What are you planning to do, threaten him? You can't keep her by eliminating options. You don't trust her, you are struggling to not forbid her seeing her friend because you feel threatened, and you are making rules about who she can invite into her home.
She's not your belonging. If you don't start paying more attention to being with her and contributing something positive to her life, and less to being jealous and trying to control the behavior of other people (spoiler: you can't) you won't have to worry about her or her friend for long.
Work on being the best version of yourself if you feel competitive about her being in the world with other men. If you keep working at making rules to prevent her from making you jealous, you will lose.
yes, I 100 % agree.