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Date: October 31, 2022
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i'm in a committed loving relationship and both of us see absolutely no need to sign some imaginary socially constructed contract so the system can better control us. fuck that.
It's complicated only because we both want to do it. My issue isn't with the act itself it's what she wants from it. She wants to continue being friends and I told her I can't do that, where I am emotionally I want to be together and she doesn't. She wants to continue having sex like a fwb or situationship and I told her the most I could do is breakup sex because then it would just be the finalizing factor to our relationship. We both get our last moment together.
I want to do it. But I don't want to be friends anymore that's about it. I guess I'm asking if I should still do it anyway, even though she's seeking something different from it. Which is a friendship I just can't give right now.
unnecessary info – I don't know why she wants to still be friends. When we dated we did a lot of things together. And that just finished after we broke up. Before we dated we barely talked we'd go months without saying anything and if anyone dated anyone else we just stopped talking all together. I don't know why she'd think it'd be any different now.
he clearly has unresolved issues. but it is not your responsibility to fix him. you are his girlfriend not his shrink. your feelings are important; you shouldn't have to swallow you emotions to make him feel better. he needs therapy before he is in a relationship. i wish someone would have said this to me at your age. it would have saved me years of grief.
Welcome to untreated BPD logic.
Generational trauma is hot to break out of. It’s is abusive behavior but he probably doesn’t see it as that because it’s super normalized.
If this is a dealbreaker for you then that’s not something you should feel guilty about. If this is a relationship that you want to keep then I’d suggest talking about your expectations in relationships (and your dealbreaker) and maybe going to a councilor/therapist.
No. She's ambitious and has a little bit more expectations out of her partner. Nothing wrong with that
No, what is best for your kids is ho have access to BOTH parents. She can't just bail on you, and remove your children. You've done nothing wrong!
Get your own lawyer, and go for shared custody of your children. Do not allow her to move away with the kids. That's not fair on them at all, to completely up-end your children's lives, move them across the country over something she's not prepared to talk about.
I'm pretty shocked at how fast she has blown apart all your lives. She's seeming amicable, but don't be fooled. She is destroying your lives over something you never even knew about. She's assuming you want your bio kid more than your adopted kids. She thinks you won't fight for your children. I know you are heartbroken, but she's trying to take your kids away from you. You should be raging. I could never imagine leaving my partner over something like an unknown child from his past. Life throws us all kinds of curve balls. You should be able to lean on eachother for support. It's beyond awful that she not only abandoned you, but doesn't want to communicate with you as to why she's walking away. I'm so sorry.
In general people look better without glasses, and I’m pretty sure that’s a universal view. I wear glasses too but even as a guy I’ll put in contacts if I’m going on a first date or to the club w my girl. I don’t think suggesting contacts one time is that big of deal, but if he’s constantly pressuring you to do it then it’s definitely a problem. Really depends on the circumstance and how it was communicated. People suggesting they break up over a single suggestion are ridiculous and probably perpetually single
A transwoman existing and dating a guy for two weeks while not discussing her past isn’t deceit. How often do ciswomen discuss their deep secrets within the first two weeks of dating someone? The only reason this is judged as deceit is because y’all are terrified that you’d be attracted to and have sex with us.
The right time for a trans person to discuss this is prior to sex (if pre-op) or before the relationship becomes serious (if post op). This woman did absolutely nothing wrong besides having an emotional reaction to such an ignorant response.
Flashbacks to my ex cheating on me with his coworker. Ugh. Hope all is well with your relationship OP ?
Flashbacks to my ex cheating on me with his coworker. Ugh. Hope all is well with your relationship OP ?