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The other people here have pretty much covered exactly what you did wrong and why Emily should leave you, so I’m just going to suggest that you consider popping over to r/stopdrinking since you think you have an alcohol problem.
The thing you described at the end where you can do anything sounds really liberating. You know that you can have that by just ending the relationship. Basically all you wish for and complain about revolves around not being in this relationship anymore and you are doing yourself a great disservice for not even considering it.
Your BF is the one setting this rule. If he made you take your belongings the relationship is probably done and using this as a stepping stone to get out. Going from every weekend to one night a week yet he says how much he misses you but don’t go to your place is suspicious.
This all just sounds fishy. Especially when roommate wasn’t there the first day he said you couldn’t stay & he wanted to “spend time w him”. Something isn’t adding up w your BFs story. Next time you’re over just tell the roommate “I apologize for staying over so much. My BF said there was an issue and I don’t want to wear out my welcome “ or something similar.
Put roommate on the spot and see how they both react. If S didn’t tell A you couldn’t stay you’ll see it in his face and your BFs as well.
Again if he didn’t want you to stay so much but you were still allowed to spend some nights w your BF he wouldn’t have made you take your clothes etc.
Call her bluff and tell her you'll call the cops and her family if she even attempts anything. No reason to stay with an abuser and manipulator.
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The other people here have pretty much covered exactly what you did wrong and why Emily should leave you, so I’m just going to suggest that you consider popping over to r/stopdrinking since you think you have an alcohol problem.
The thing you described at the end where you can do anything sounds really liberating. You know that you can have that by just ending the relationship. Basically all you wish for and complain about revolves around not being in this relationship anymore and you are doing yourself a great disservice for not even considering it.
Oh well in that case tell him you understand it’s a mistake. I’m sure you’ll handle it better the next time he makes a mistake
Your BF is the one setting this rule. If he made you take your belongings the relationship is probably done and using this as a stepping stone to get out. Going from every weekend to one night a week yet he says how much he misses you but don’t go to your place is suspicious.
This all just sounds fishy. Especially when roommate wasn’t there the first day he said you couldn’t stay & he wanted to “spend time w him”. Something isn’t adding up w your BFs story. Next time you’re over just tell the roommate “I apologize for staying over so much. My BF said there was an issue and I don’t want to wear out my welcome “ or something similar.
Put roommate on the spot and see how they both react. If S didn’t tell A you couldn’t stay you’ll see it in his face and your BFs as well.
Again if he didn’t want you to stay so much but you were still allowed to spend some nights w your BF he wouldn’t have made you take your clothes etc.
It’s all just weird.