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Date: October 6, 2022
I was 18 and starting uni and he was 22 and working on an apprenticeship when we met, there is 4 1/2 years between us, which is not an uncommon age gap.
Yes the problem was that he was looking at porn because he was not being truthful about it.
Divorce and don't talk to any of them again. There is no trust left here, they have all lied to you for far too long to be forgiven.
Is it actually creepy if we spent 5 years together? She always complained that I didn’t take initiative on planning trips or making plans. I don’t know I thought this would be the gesture to show I have changed. I have bettered myself, I went to therapy, I read the love languages books. I’m cognizant of what I did wrong. It’s not that being with her is better than being alone. It’s just I was too immature and idiotic to realize how good I had it. It doesn’t help that my Dad uses every holiday to remind me I fucked up. It’s exhausting.
Thanks again for your insight, Up-Town. You've given me some very valuable information that helps put my mind at ease.
For one, I better understand that BPD is a spectrum that we're all on. It seems that my exgf may be predisposed to the higher end of BPD than most people due to her childhood trauma. I have read several stories of people with full BDP and I do not believe my ex has it as bad as some people. However, she seems to certainly have some type of personality disorder that affects her romantic (and perhaps some of her friendship) relationships.
It is very interesting that BPD is the only disorder that includes self-mutilation. I did not know this.
And yes, I am currently seeking therapy to better understand the abuse I went through. I will go through therapy with a professional to figure out where to go from this point on.
I sincerely appreciate your help and time. It has honestly been beneficial for me.
Why is this guy not in jail? You have to move on, she's far too damaged for you to have a normal life with.
How hard is it for him to put on his big boy pants and tell her he doesn't see a future for them?
You feel numb now. This is a sign of abuse. Your body is reacting that way and shutting down because you are not heeding the warning signs and getting out of that situation. It’s a trauma response, but it’s not always helpful.
Your boyfriend is being controlling, critical and undermining
You need to stay fully cognisant and proactive about your need to end this relationship and disentangle yourself from his life, because this is abusive behaviour and the more you minimise and ignore it, the more stuck there you will be while better opportunities and better people pass you by.
Well. I'm not gonna really get into whether you're in love or just love being with them, but your math is kind of screwy. You said you've known them for 'going on 6 months” but started with saying you met them in mid November. That's not that important I guess but kind of tells me that you are way too, like, whimsical in how you are looking at all this.
She's someone you care about and you messed up. It happens. And if the relationship is strong, you can over come it by working on your issues. You clearly know what you have issues with but you still coming off as this really clingy type person, which is naked for some people to deal with. You guys might just not be compatible. Some of the things you have done would be enough for me to wanna go separate ways. It's up to her to give you another shot but at the end of the day, she doesn't have to.
I know you think you're super in love but you're young. Try to work on yourself. And try and understand your future partners.
Unless you are going to go PI and look at the accounts of people she tags regularly.
Thank you this is great advice! I definitely think putting it on hold is best like you said. Think it annoys me more as she also had a few affairs then is getting annoyed he's found someone lol thank you though for this sound advice!
This many issues after you're adults? This relationship doesn't look to be sustainable as your bf doesn't sound too stable mentally meaning he basically doesn't like you telling the truth about anything in your past, especially if it involves other men. Anyway, if you really want it to work out, I'd seek couple's therapy, otherwise it's just going to be more of the same and you'll end up wasting time on something that is only going to end because of communication and miscommunication.
How do you know she was in school? Or freshly out? Do you know what culture/country she’s from?
At 17 me personally I was graduated and had a full time job and was in college. Most of my friends were in their 20s. You are being presumptuous and playing worst case scenario. If he went to her high school and picked her out, yeah that’s creepy.
But if they met at work or at a college party, nothing wrong w that.